Breaking up with my gf

[Bullhorn7]

No sob story I dont care that much but she is nice and would get hurt realllyyyy bad if I just went out and told her. Shes majorly clingy and has revenge issues(Im starting to notice I attract the weird ones)

I need subtle ideas to kill the relationship without her killing herself or something.

[cp[mike]]

start pulling back and through actions make it clear that you arent feeling it like you used to. then when she questions you about it, you can express it verbally and it wont seem like its coming out of left field, she will be able to connect the dots and see the truth behind your words. then she cant blame you for cutting her off short with no supporting reason. hopefully if you are honest to her about it she will be able to identify her own faults and be a better person in her next relationship.

[LoDollar92LX]

tell her your ***?

[Bullhorn7]

start pulling back and through actions make it clear that you arent feeling it like you used to. then when she questions you about it, you can express it verbally and it wont seem like its coming out of left field, she will be able to connect the dots and see the truth behind your words. then she cant blame you for cutting her off short with no supporting reason. hopefully if you are honest to her about it she will be able to identify her own faults and be a better person in her next relationship.

Reasons:
-Out of the last 10 dates weve been on and hell the last 3 weeks weve been seeing eachother, all she wants to do is spend my money and have sex. Im sure its unintentional but still. I want a Gf not a Fuck Buddy.
-She hates my friends, hell my friends define me.
-She hates my cars(The CB the CG and the Taurus.) says there too low
-She hates the way I drive
-We just dont connect like we did in the past. Im sure she can argue with that but I just dont feel like im with the right person.


I hate being a dick. and yes im doing that right now, very passively moving away from her claiming im going through rough times and feel overwhelmed.

[Lynx]

Point her to this thread, lol!

[WilliamW]

If she has revenge issues.... I'd suggest just being extremely open yet sensitive. Timing is everything (even though I've never left anyone, I've always been the one who was left), When my last serious girlfriend of 2 1/2 years left me it was when I got off of tech school at 5, going to school the whole day since 7:30 am and then having to drive to work to work until 1 am. It was raining and my window wipers didn't work and she left me over the phone in a down pour. Not a very great feeling.

[92turboaccord]

tell her you feel like your with a prostitute..
then explain this to her
Prostitution is the act or practice of providing sexual services to another person in return for payment. People who execute such activities are called prostitutes

if that dont work then tell her the truth

[HondaB18]

Let her drive the Taurus with the broken transmission. That way she'll break up with you, problem solved.

[Makaveli2k]

Tell her you want to have a threesome... in which she is not invited.

[tommi]

at least u had the decency to do it after v day . not on v day.

[deevergote]

Corndog her.


You will be single, I guarantee you.

[crazymikey]

Blue waffle.

[Bullhorn7]

If she has revenge issues.... I'd suggest just being extremely open yet sensitive. Timing is everything (even though I've never left anyone, I've always been the one who was left), When my last serious girlfriend of 2 1/2 years left me it was when I got off of tech school at 5, going to school the whole day since 7:30 am and then having to drive to work to work until 1 am. It was raining and my window wipers didn't work and she left me over the phone in a down pour. Not a very great feeling.

Yea man been there, its a really crappy feeling.

Let her drive the Taurus with the broken transmission. That way she'll break up with you, problem solved.

Hahaha! I tried! She doesnt want to drive my car.

Tell her you want to have a threesome... in which she is not invited.

Oh god I can already see the Taurus getting keyed and the tires slashed. Oh wait.

at least u had the decency to do it after v day . not on v day.

True. Like I said I hate being a dick.

Corndog her.


You will be single, I guarantee you.

Remember that comment on another thread about buying that shirt and when im single you wanted her? Go ahead! She'll be legal ina year!

[deevergote]

A year? Dammit... she's too young to corndog!
Actually, you're 18... she's too young for YOU to corndog, legally!

[GeoffM]

Try hitting her.