Disregard females.

[danf20bcb7]

It just bugs me because I met her when I wasn't even looking to find someone, so she was such a nice welcome surprise to just show up in my life.

My ex left me last May after about a year and a half, and the funny part is, I'm more upset about this one than losing an established long term relationship.

I know life goes on. Shit happens, whatever. I get through it. I have friends, family, a job and a car that make me happy, so why should one person ruin all that for me?

Not good though...I take to drinking alot when I get upset or depressed, and I'm feeling the urge. I don't want to do it, because I've been to counselling for alcohol addiction for depression.

all im sayin is dont try and figure that shit out, you will take a lifetime trying trust me, thats just plain ol female right there. and dont chase it im tellin you nor get back with it, cause thats all it will ever be every 5seconds. o lets go out, na lets stay friends.

[Tippey764]

acquire currency?

[crazymikey]

Well, the back story to her is that just before I met her, she had come out of a 3 year relationship. She was not looking to get into another relationship right away, so I wanted to take things slow with her.

She told me this year she wanted freedom and adventure and felt like I was pressuring into a relationship she wasn't ready for. Meanwhile, as we were sprta seeing each other, she was out on a few dates with some other guys, which started to make me jealous and protective, so I guess I staepped up my game to prove to her that I'm the sort of guy she should be with and not these online dating losers.

We had no committment, we were just casually dating and stuff, but I've slept with her several times. She seemed to feel as if I was getting too attached while she just wasn't ready.instead of letting me wait for her to be ready, she said she can't do that to me and would rather let me go now, and that's when she started the excuses of "not enough in common" and stuff just trying to brush me off.

So that sorta explains it.

[redlined302]

i know what youre going through. im in the process of getting over the same type of feelings after my girlfriend of 2 years. Youre among friends here on the boards and if you need talking to pm is the key. As mentioned before and what i am going to think from now on is one door closes for another one to open. Keep your head up man youll get through this.

[jst_4_kiks]

Hey, just keep your head up and take it day by day. You'll find someone else that really enjoys time with you and actually likes the same things you do. Maybe she'll drive a cb. I've seen it before. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

On a side not, I was single for about a year and a half. Did the whole bar scene with drunk chicks on the weekends. But just got sick of the drama. Plus I'm not one to drink myself into a coma every Friday and Saturday night. Eventually I found the one. On Yahoo personals to match that. She was two towns over from me and now we are happily married and have a beautiful 2 year old daughter.

Keep your head up mikey. It will turn around for you.

[GeoffM]

You have hands don't you?
Put them to work!

[crazymikey]

You have hands don't you?
Put them to work!

They've done enough work. They need a break lol

[Law Grandeur]

she says she wants something..acts that way, uses you, then leaves. typical bitch to me. at least she had the decency to end it and not let it drag on. sorry to hear man i really am

[crazymikey]

I definetly feel led on and used.

It annoys me how she said she didn't want anything more than friends right now, but constantly allowed me to cross that line. All of a sudden I'm the bad guy because I'm given the green flag to proceed and then she turns around and says No, that's not what I wanted, but I took it anyways.


I even asked her. I said "Everything I did to/with you, I did it because it felt right with you. Did you have the same genuine feelings towards me, or did you just take it because you could?"

She actually got mad at me for even asking that and replied with "of course it was genuine feeling."

So why push someone away when you have mutual feelings? I don't care what state my life is in. If I got out of a long term and wanted adventure and exploration, I'd do it, and if someone came along and swept me off my feet and offered me everything I wanted, I'd certainly be temped to give it a try.

I guess I just hurt myself for getting into something too deep that I knew wasn't going to work right away, and pressured her into something more than she wanted right now and scared her off.

I'm done with dwelling on it. Won't get me any further ahead. I left it open ended for her, so if she wants to come back, it's her call. She said she sees no future with us any more than friends, and I want more than that, so unfortunately, I think it's done with. I wish she'd have given me more of a chance, but if she can't see what's right under her nose, well then it's her loss.

I'll miss that spark that we did have, or atleast that I felt with her. She was a wonderful little package, but ended up with the same messed up head like most of them.

[zmanwit90accord]

I know how you feel man... at a younger and not as serious state though.

I really like this girl but she was one of those high school sweet-heart girls and now she wants to have fun and not be tied down. Meanwhile, she goes to a lot of places with me and we've hooked up and I feel like we're more than just friends.

... It almost sounds like what's happened to you, will happen to me soon. She did say she likes me too much to put me in a relationship with her because she's "not ready" but then allows me to do typical boyfriend/girlfriend sthtuff, which might get me in trouble down the road.

Real good timing on this thread, I'm sorry to hear about it but like others have said, hopefully something good comes out of this.

[sandman61377]

It annoys me how she said she didn't want anything more than friends right now, but constantly allowed me to cross that line. All of a sudden I'm the bad guy because I'm given the green flag to proceed and then she turns around and says No, that's not what I wanted, but I took it anyways.


I even asked her. I said "Everything I did to/with you, I did it because it felt right with you. Did you have the same genuine feelings towards me, or did you just take it because you could?"

She actually got mad at me for even asking that and replied with "of course it was genuine feeling."

So why push someone away when you have mutual feelings? I don't care what state my life is in. If I got out of a long term and wanted adventure and exploration, I'd do it, and if someone came along and swept me off my feet and offered me everything I wanted, I'd certainly be temped to give it a try.

There it is right there. You said she recently got out of a long relationship. I'm sure she got hurt from that, and her head made the decision to not get into another relationship "too soon" because she doesn't want to get hurt again. But here you come, and probably swept her off her feet, and her heart is telling her to go for it. She isn't calling an end to it because you want more than she does, but because her heart wants more than her head is willing to let happen. Too bad for the both of you, her head is winning out in this disagreement.

[Flatline]

Want advice? Dont dwell on it.

Move on.
Do you.
Have fun.
Be free.

Last yeah my Fiance left me because she felt like we weren't the same. She was right. She lost her job, refused to step up and do what she had to in order to help us get along financially. I took it and started working another job.

day job was 10a-7pm, night job 7pm-7am. factor in drive time between jobs, the 2 hours i had to spend showering after my night job and so on i couldn't sleep from thursday night through monday at all. 96 hour weekends to pay the bills and was barely scraping by.

I sold my accord for a retarded amount to cover rent, never got time to do what i wanted, never got enough rest, and was miserable for at least 8 months. Never asked her for a goddamn thing. I quit that job to spend more time with her and get my life back and she dips because she didn't feel the same.

We were together for six years. That was last august. I sat on a bunch of bullshit for a while over it. kept my down and i hated it.

The minute i told myself fuck that and fuck her and moved on life was so much better.

Then i started seeing another girl and i must say, i haven't been happier before in my whole life. And i wouldn't feel that if i was still stuck on my ex. I moved on pretty quick and its the best thing i could have done.

Just seize the day and take advantage of every opportunity you get. I guarantee you'll feel better before you know it.

[phatdoughnut]

Pics? A girls looks says a lot about how she acts.


Women don't know what they have until they loose it, F her.

[Night Wolf]

Pics? A girls looks says a lot about how she acts.

so fucking true!


btw pics?

[phatdoughnut]

so fucking true!


btw pics?

Maybe you need to beat her up a little