question for the ladys kinda nws

[CrazyHondaOwnR]

ok so here is the deal my gf and i have been together for sometime and we've just now got really sexualy active .... the problem is that acording to her i'm kinda big and it hurts going in at first (bout 5min is what she says) ...... my question to you is ......is there anything i can do to make it hurt less for her? ..... it kinda makes me feel bad


any advice is apreciated

[Makaveli2k]

lubrication?

[CrazyHondaOwnR]

tried that .... the ky stuff

[cvc7chris]

stop fucking? j.k

idk...she must just have to learn to like it
maybe with the time being
she'll get used to it

[sulimed]

4 play

[TypeG]

have someone you know with an even bigger penis have sex with her. then you won't hear a peep. later.

[MikeW]

x2.

Remember, its a muscle so it can stretch and get used to being used..the moreyou work it, the stronger it gets and the more control you have over it..

[Makaveli2k]

x2.

Remember, its a muscle so it can stretch and get used to being used..the moreyou work it, the stronger it gets and the more control you have over it..

control over it lol... I like that. You heard the man crack your whip on that coochie and tell it to open sesame, or you're ramming the walls down!

[accordztech]

get her really wet. my girl was like that for a month. i just did her not too fast....after a few times it got looser. then a few times after that it was all good.

she said that it was too big, also if it hurts on penertration u can just get almost hard, toss it in there and let it get hard that way. one way or the other she will get used to it. my girl is small but she got used to it, and sex got better haha.

use rubbers!

[kouzie]

stop fucking? j.k

idk...she must just have to learn to like it
maybe with the time being
she'll get used to it

[MikeW]

First off, better to be too big than too small...

Im pretty sure every guy can agree with me on that one

Secondly, foreplay/getting her wet, should work as well, dont rush things. And even after all that, it still hurts, give it time. If after that, try some numbing agents...

Might rub off on you, but hey, she wont hurt so much and you might last a little longer

EDIT/:OT:...but anybody else...pics or ban....??

[StoobyMcDooby]

pic or ban ftw....


but seriously... dude- heres what i have learned in life.. stay sexually active.. the more and more you do the dirty with her, as mentioned above, the more used to it her body will become. Foreplay is great, yes. But look dude, if you stay steadily sexual with her, good things will come. But do not get frustrated with it all... reguardless to how much you two do the dew, there will sometimes still be obsticals.
What did i do? We kept trying new positions until it didnt hurt

Good luck, keep it regular man.
:edit:
if all else fails, go with typeg's answer

[lil_dcb7]

I heard that sometimes a girl can have over lapping skin down there (weither it was her clit, or something else, I dont remember) and it makes her extremely sensitive, making "routine" sex painful.

I was told that sex shouldnt hurt, if done right, or unless you fall under a circumstance like the one i just mentioned.




But, im no doctor. I just remember a similar situation on Dr. 90210.

[MikeW]

1) "overlapping skin" would more than likely refer to the labia majora aka the "lips". Ive heard of extra existing, and ive seen it, but never heard of it causing pain during intercourse...

:edit:
if all else fails, go with typeg's answer

Or you could PIITB

pics would really help..especialy if they were of---nevermind....

[accordztech]

dude my wang hurt when we first started...does yours??