Yea I know all the jokes..
"I didn't notice you were gone" blahblahblah
But I'm back.
Stright up, I need some advice, and I remember all you guys being stright up with me back when. This is kind of a long read, but you'll stay entertained.
There is this girl that i've partied with maybe 5-10 times. She's just part of the regular group. Kinda cute. She's 22 and i'll be 21 in December (Who's coming to the bar with me?!
)
Anyways, out of no where she texts me last Thursday and says. "I think you need to start messing around with me and not younger girls"
. Well, I found out she was at the bar when she did this and wasted, but this is all totally random. So we've been talking (she's been initiating) and she wanted to come and watch some movies at my house. So I invite some friends over and her too (I don't wanna rush into anything).
That was last night, and we didn't sit next to each other or anything it was just pretty chill. So she texted me on her way home last night and said, "I don't know if it's coming across that I like you...But I kinda do".... So this left me in a little predicament. I texted her back and said "all this was coming from "left field" and I needed to digest it." This bought me some time. She agreed it was random and didn't want to "overwhelm" me, but wanted to know if i'd go to a party with her next Saturday.
Enough with story time... I work and go to school all week and pretty much have the weekends free. I have a booming computer business and 12-15 hours days are not uncommon.
I got dumped hardcore just before summer started and told myself I wanted to be single through my 21st b-day etc. etc. and till the end of the year. But i'm not strong in turning girls away, and I really don't want to. BUT right now i'm good with partying and "benefiting" if that makes sense. Just not a full-blown relationship right now.
SO how do I tell her that I want to just be "Friends with benefits?" Nothing more right now?
Hopefully I covered all the details.
LET ME KNOW!
and Thank!
"I didn't notice you were gone" blahblahblah
But I'm back.
Stright up, I need some advice, and I remember all you guys being stright up with me back when. This is kind of a long read, but you'll stay entertained.
There is this girl that i've partied with maybe 5-10 times. She's just part of the regular group. Kinda cute. She's 22 and i'll be 21 in December (Who's coming to the bar with me?!
)Anyways, out of no where she texts me last Thursday and says. "I think you need to start messing around with me and not younger girls"
. Well, I found out she was at the bar when she did this and wasted, but this is all totally random. So we've been talking (she's been initiating) and she wanted to come and watch some movies at my house. So I invite some friends over and her too (I don't wanna rush into anything).That was last night, and we didn't sit next to each other or anything it was just pretty chill. So she texted me on her way home last night and said, "I don't know if it's coming across that I like you...But I kinda do".... So this left me in a little predicament. I texted her back and said "all this was coming from "left field" and I needed to digest it." This bought me some time. She agreed it was random and didn't want to "overwhelm" me, but wanted to know if i'd go to a party with her next Saturday.
Enough with story time... I work and go to school all week and pretty much have the weekends free. I have a booming computer business and 12-15 hours days are not uncommon.
I got dumped hardcore just before summer started and told myself I wanted to be single through my 21st b-day etc. etc. and till the end of the year. But i'm not strong in turning girls away, and I really don't want to. BUT right now i'm good with partying and "benefiting"
if that makes sense. Just not a full-blown relationship right now.SO how do I tell her that I want to just be "Friends with benefits?" Nothing more right now?
Hopefully I covered all the details.
LET ME KNOW!
and Thank!
Best advice here, for sure!
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