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You already know that 98% of what your parents say and do to you is annd will be for your better benefit. It may not seem like it, but it will. As for your age, if your under 18 or 17, you really dont have a choice but to do what they say. If you have a job and you bought your car, why do they get to say what you can and cannot do to your car? What if you do something to your car they dont approve of? If you bought it, they cant take it away from you.
Your at that shitty cusp. Your old enough to have a job and buy things, but you still need your parents living life. I was there. Unfortunately it ended with me yelling at my mom. We eventually got over it, but it happens. And at the rate things seem to be going in your house, your gonna end up having a knock-down-drag-out fight with your mom. One or both of you will end screaming and/or crying and it'll be pretty ugly for a few days. If she continues to be oppressive and a "bitch", deal with it until you find a way out. For both of your sakes, i hope it turns out good.
You really just need to sit her/them down and explain, and show, to them that you are a growing man/kid/person and that you appreciate and understand their rules and decisions, but you need some space. You need to go out with your gf - w/o your sister. You bought and paid for your car(right?) and its yours to do with what you please. You may want to do crazy or "stupid" things to it, but your smart enough not to go running it head-on into a wall or 5 o'clock traffic. But let them know that you still need guidance and that you dont "know everything". Trust me, to a certain degree, living on your own/paying bills is easy but it cant get difficult if your not careful.
Whether it takes sitting them down or screaming and yelling, you ultimately need to be venting/ranting to them, not us. Not that we dont enjoy helping you out, but in order for things to change, or start changing, theyre the ones that need to know how you feel. GL and i hope it works out for you dude.
repeat and redefined of what I said!
SUMMARY...you have to grow up ...and living in your parents house..you have to abide by their rules!
no way around it!
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... you turn out to be a complete dick head and thinks the world is out to get you.
this sounds scarcely familiar on this board..
well, if fit makes you guys feel any better about ripping me a new ass hole, i do see things like the way you've said, i still dont feel its fair. oh well.
i'll just deal with it, or stand up to my folks and tell them what i think
All my life, ive been raised to never stand up to my elders,
im just gonna talk to them, see where that gets me, its a start. and if that dont work.
theres always dorm life.
Claire - '92 Mercedes-Benz 500E - AMG&Bilstein Treatment - The Wolf in Sheep's clothing.
Alice - '97 BMW 540i6 - Dinan Tuned. - Low Profile Weekend Warrior.
I like to think of myself as the Flavor Flav of CB7Tuner. Trying to relive some of the tension in here. We need to laugh every once in a while. I'm serious when it comes to college, but after school, I'm loose than four lug nuts off a donut. I'm thinking of wearing a orange jumpsuit, and when I grow my hair back, I'm getting green twists in my head. Mabye wear a clock and a radio bumper sticker on my ass.
some of you guys are taking this way to seriously. yeah his situation isnt that bad but whats he supposed to do ball it up inside? seams the crazy fools who shoot up schools and what not are always kept to themselves. let him bitch, its the internet who cares? he not saying go cry for me. ive seen whiney stupider topics here
i wasnt allowed to have a tv in my room because i might bring girls over to watch it. i have tons of stupid rules my parants made up. looking back, i laugh.
well, if fit makes you guys feel any better about ripping me a new ass hole, i do see things like the way you've said, i still dont feel its fair. oh well.
i'll just deal with it, or stand up to my folks and tell them what i think
All my life, ive been raised to never stand up to my elders,
im just gonna talk to them, see where that gets me, its a start. and if that dont work.
theres always dorm life.
never stand up?
Typical mexican family.
With that, you GOTTA stand up to them. It's the only way they will listen to you.
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