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    well, there's this woman who lives up the street from me, she's ghetto, uneducated and carries herself accordingly. I think she has two kids, one for sure.

    About three months ago, my sister lost her skateboard from our side storage room(we live in a condo, so our outside storage rooms are on the side of the units, kinda like apartments, i guess.(our door is really shitty, and you can just kick the door and it opens, even if its locked)

    well my sister lost her skate board. it was an expensive Ramones one. really nice. it was girlie (all pink, etc, but Ramones-esque)

    around three days later, my sister comes in and tells me "Danny i saw my skate boards, these black kids have it!"

    well i go over there, and honestly, these kids (the neighborhood kids, they werent all black, just the neighborhood kids. any way. The smaller black kids had it. I wasnt mean, i wasnt being a hard ass because i was MUCH older and bigger. I approached them,

    "Hey, bro. Can I ask where you got that skate board?"

    they gave me the fucking run around, until I finally talked to the black kids mom (the neighbor mentioned eariler) She seemed like she just really didnt, for lack of better words, give a shit. She was dismissive about the whole situation, on how her kids were playing with stolen property. We(my parents) kinda let that situation go, because what were we going to do? We got it back, ruined, but she got it back none the less.

    now TODAY, my sister runs in, saying "Danny, those black kids that took my skate board called me a dick!"

    so i went outside, and saw them walking up the street. (now keep in mind, they cant be older than 11.

    They are fairly far up the street. when they turned and saw me with my little sister, they ran.

    so i get in my car and make my way up the street. No im not driving erratically, im calm throughout the situation.

    So, the kids are infront of their house, and I walk up to them, calm like last time, Approached them with no hostile attitude.

    "Hey bro, Hey, You guys know my sister?"
    "Huh? Wha? No sir"
    "My sister knows you, and your brother, is you mom inside?"
    "Uh no. Hey I didnt do anything"
    "I'm not accusing you of anything. Is your brother inside?"
    "Uh, yeah..."

    then his mom opens the door, and says "Look, you need to get the fuck away from my house, and tell your little sister to stop being a little bully. Come out her Darius, you dont need to be afraid of any one."

    "Excuse me ma'am?"
    "You heard me, your sister's a little bully. I tell you, if some one calls my little boys a name, they gonna call it back"
    "What Has my sister told your boys, ma'am?"
    "Listen, I dont got to tell you shit. But for your information, she been calling my boys bitches."
    "Your boys have told you this? Can I ask your son what my sister has called him"
    "No you can't ask my son nothin'!"
    "Well, ma'am, can you ask him"
    "I aint gotta do shit!"
    "Ma'am if my sister is not acting right, i want to get to the bottom of this"
    "Listen, my little nieces go to the same school as your sister, and they be sayin' that she's a bully. Now I done told you, I ain't gotta tell you a fuckin thing. You should go talk to you little sister and see what the damn problem is. And bring your momma and your daddy I dont give a shit. We kick they ass"

    I just turned around and then she proceeded to say

    "Darius, come on out here and play, you ain't gotta be afraid of any one, because he get his ass kicked real fuckin quick!"

    What kind of action can I take. Possible legal action? CPS?

    And people, please dont think we're racist or anything. because thats not how its comming off. My dad himself is uneducated, from the ghetto, but he has morals. My sister told him what happened with her and my encounter with the mom, and he said he's on his way. and a confrontation between him and any one else in that household is something I want to avoid, I've seen what my dad can do in situations like this, and I dont want him to go to jail again.
    Last edited by lil_dcb7; 04-11-2007, 08:24 PM.

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    Originally posted by JoshM
    Okay to do: "I'm sorry I broke your mailbox, here's $100.
    NOT okay to do: "I'm sorry I fucked your sister, here's $100.

    #2
    first off, of course your gonna side with your sister. Maybe she has said something? and get a better lock.


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      #3
      Originally posted by starchland
      first off, of course your gonna side with your sister. Maybe she has said something? and get a better lock.
      yeah thats what i didnt put in my initial post. I know my sister, of course I'm going to side with her, but im not going go to some womans house and make a fool of myself, if i knew my sister did something to start it, I wouldn't have budged. I asked her, "what did you say?" "I didnt say anything!"

      I asked the little seven year old boy she was playing with, he confirmed that the kids that came out of the alley way called her a "bad word". I asked him "Did my sister say anything?" "No, she didnt say nothing"

      I know my sister, and she wouldnt start shit. Not the way the mother described it.

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      Originally posted by JoshM
      Okay to do: "I'm sorry I broke your mailbox, here's $100.
      NOT okay to do: "I'm sorry I fucked your sister, here's $100.

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        #4
        i feel you dude

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          #5
          Sounds like the black woman's racist. One thing I've noticed from years of observation, being around all kinds of people in public schools, is that a good portion of black people are racist (mainly the poorer, ghetto-types), mostly hating white people, not because whites have wronged them in any way, but because lies are being forced down their throats about how the "white devils" are evil and are out to get black people. It's not that white people today are mean or racist towards them, it's just that they're ignorance seems to be greater than their ability to think for themselves, instead of learning the way the world works according to Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton. Now, don't go hatin' on me, accusing me of being a racist, because I stated facts I've gathered from life experiences in observation, because I'm no racist. That is all.

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            #6
            Originally posted by According2Aaron
            Now, don't go hatin' on me, accusing me of being a racist, because I stated facts I've gathered from life experiences in observation, because I'm no racist. That is all.
            I wont go hatin....but the "facts" that you've gathered from your experiences are "facts" that are EXCLUSIVE to YOUR experiences. They don't represent FACTS that can be applied to an entire group. (ie. black people have higher incidences of sickle-cell anemia...that is a FACT). I know poor blacks that are color blind and i know rich whites that are not. Should i use those "experiences" to characterize a group of people that THEY are a part of? Are all honda tuners "ricers" or is that just what that dude in the mustang next to you thinks?

            Seems to me that this woman is extremely ignorant. That is clearly a FACT. I'd be willing to bet she would have behaved the same way to another black person. I get the impression that she went into defense mode because you (lil_dcb7) confronted her in a fashion that clearly defines where her parental/social skills are severely lacking. Basically, rather than be receptive to the fact that her children are misbehaving (let's face it, kids will be kids), she took your questions as an affront to her ability to keep her kids in check. If she was a REAL parent, she would have done what YOU did as soon as she heard that your sister was being a bully to her own children...allegedly. Further more, she couldn'r handle the fact that you were being calm, articulate, and concerned about what transpired between the children and not automatically taking sides. Ignorance is something that permeates a person's EVERY ACTION. She's the type of person who would beef with a teacher that says that her child is performing in a sub-par fashion as compared to his/her classmates. If that teacher were white, would that make her a racist? NO. Ignorant? Bet your Ass she is.

            You did the right thing B. I suggest that you just try to be easy and keep your interaction with her to a minimum. This would also be a good time to explain to your sister, in kid talk, that black does not equal ignorant. You've already stated that your peoples are moral individuals so i have no doubt that you been raised right, but sometimes, in the heat of the moment that shitty neighbor could become a "black bitch" and trust me when i tell you...kids soak that shit up and it stays with them for a while...

            Just my $.02
            Good luck with that situation B
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              #7
              Originally posted by PHENOM
              I wont go hatin....but the "facts" that you've gathered from your experiences are "facts" that are EXCLUSIVE to YOUR experiences. They don't represent FACTS that can be applied to an entire group. (ie. black people have higher incidences of sickle-cell anemia...that is a FACT). I know poor blacks that are color blind and i know rich whites that are not. Should i use those "experiences" to characterize a group of people that THEY are a part of? Are all honda tuners "ricers" or is that just what that dude in the mustang next to you thinks?

              Seems to me that this woman is extremely ignorant. That is clearly a FACT. I'd be willing to bet she would have behaved the same way to another black person. I get the impression that she went into defense mode because you (lil_dcb7) confronted her in a fashion that clearly defines where her parental/social skills are severely lacking. Basically, rather than be receptive to the fact that her children are misbehaving (let's face it, kids will be kids), she took your questions as an affront to her ability to keep her kids in check. If she was a REAL parent, she would have done what YOU did as soon as she heard that your sister was being a bully to her own children...allegedly. Further more, she couldn'r handle the fact that you were being calm, articulate, and concerned about what transpired between the children and not automatically taking sides. Ignorance is something that permeates a person's EVERY ACTION. She's the type of person who would beef with a teacher that says that her child is performing in a sub-par fashion as compared to his/her classmates. If that teacher were white, would that make her a racist? NO. Ignorant? Bet your Ass she is.

              You did the right thing B. I suggest that you just try to be easy and keep your interaction with her to a minimum. This would also be a good time to explain to your sister, in kid talk, that black does not equal ignorant. You've already stated that your peoples are moral individuals so i have no doubt that you been raised right, but sometimes, in the heat of the moment that shitty neighbor could become a "black bitch" and trust me when i tell you...kids soak that shit up and it stays with them for a while...

              Just my $.02
              Good luck with that situation B
              couldnt have out it better. I hope you guys fix the situation danny boy
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                #8
                You are mexican right? On the whole, black people HATE Mexicans/Latinos/Hispanics, you know.
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                  #9
                  Originally posted by The G-Man
                  You are mexican right? On the whole, black people HATE Mexicans/Latinos/Hispanics, you know.
                  black people hate latinos/mexicans??? wtf bro?? If thats what you mean then you a a huge pile of steaming dog shit!!! Thats one of the most ignorant shit I've read on this site

                  If thats not what you meant then clear that shit up....
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                    #10
                    my husband is mexican, and black people love mexicans where do you think they got there lowriders from

                    all kidding aside,

                    Get a girl(like me) and go down to that girls house and let her woop the black girls ass!!

                    Hope it all works out

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by According2Aaron
                      Sounds like the black woman's racist. One thing I've noticed from years of observation, being around all kinds of people in public schools, is that a good portion of black people are racist (mainly the poorer, ghetto-types), mostly hating white people, not because whites have wronged them in any way, but because lies are being forced down their throats about how the "white devils" are evil and are out to get black people. It's not that white people today are mean or racist towards them, it's just that they're ignorance seems to be greater than their ability to think for themselves, instead of learning the way the world works according to Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton. Now, don't go hatin' on me, accusing me of being a racist, because I stated facts I've gathered from life experiences in observation, because I'm no racist. That is all.
                      bro, you live in north Carolina. stuff over there is way different than it is here in southern cali.

                      btw im not white, Im Mexican

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                      Originally posted by JoshM
                      Okay to do: "I'm sorry I broke your mailbox, here's $100.
                      NOT okay to do: "I'm sorry I fucked your sister, here's $100.

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Gemini
                        black people hate latinos/mexicans??? wtf bro?? If thats what you mean then you a a huge pile of steaming dog shit!!! Thats one of the most ignorant shit I've read on this site

                        If thats not what you meant then clear that shit up....
                        Dude LOL

                        My ex girlfriend is black. It actually worked, she just moved to fawking texas...

                        that is not true...

                        d00d she was hot, tig ol' bitties and a badonkadonk like damn. im not kidding and sophisticated not ghetto. I refuse to go out with unsophisticated, chicks

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                        Originally posted by JoshM
                        Okay to do: "I'm sorry I broke your mailbox, here's $100.
                        NOT okay to do: "I'm sorry I fucked your sister, here's $100.

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by hondaccordgrl
                          my husband is mexican, and black people love mexicans where do you think they got there lowriders from

                          all kidding aside,

                          Get a girl(like me) and go down to that girls house and let her woop the black girls ass!!

                          Hope it all works out

                          Nicole

                          Well, my girl has a black belt in tae kwon do... hmm

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                          Originally posted by JoshM
                          Okay to do: "I'm sorry I broke your mailbox, here's $100.
                          NOT okay to do: "I'm sorry I fucked your sister, here's $100.

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by lil_dcb7
                            Dude LOL

                            My ex girlfriend is black. It actually worked, she just moved to fawking texas...

                            that is not true...

                            d00d she was hot, tig ol' bitties and a badonkadonk like damn. im not kidding and sophisticated not ghetto. I refuse to go out with unsophisticated, chicks
                            it wasnt for you...I was talking to G-man. You know we cool like the other side of the pillow All I date is latin chicks, especially Dominicans and Colombians. I've never meet one black person that have anything bad to say about hispanics and vice versa.
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                              #15
                              you know how you get a black people out of your back yard?
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