officially the worst thing that has ever happened to me

[Ralphie]

I agree with whats been said above man!!

Dont let it drag you down to much....

but i am sorry...the girl ive been with for 9 mos is just amazing...

and i couldnt imagine having her for 3 years and then not having her....

so just keep your head up and maybe she might come back...

and if she doesnt it just isnt meant to be...

[cleanz_28]

sorry to hear that...fuck it as you said...If she dont wanna be with you...wat can one do ? dedicate your self to something else...keep your head up
change ur phone number too

[ExplodingCake]

on my end things have been fine, she says that she's been feeling this way for a while, and that she loves me but shes not in love with me. it just seriously sucks, she's everywhere, its either pictures or shit, the clothes i'm wearing, she bought for me or helped me pick them out

she loves you but aint in love with you thats not right.. just keep ya head up and move on.

[NAiL05]

Like the saying goes there are other fish in the sea.

[Frazzums]

Im in the same boat as you buddy..benn with my now Ex GF for 2 1/2 years together and she wants to break up.

It really gets me cause we live together and work together...and the icing on the cake she meet some guy and hangs out with him alot, she claims there just friends but they like each other....yeah i know how much life sucks..

[Frazzums]

Like the saying goes there are other fish in the sea.

Ya buts its hard if you been with a person for such a long time its not that easy to move on. Unless you hate them.

she loves you but aint in love with you thats not right.. just keep ya head up and move on.

My Ex says she dont love me anymore but she cares for me...wtf..women are confusing,

[F22HB]

she loves you but aint in love with you thats not right.. just keep ya head up and move on.

Man, I know exactly how that goes. Did she relize you had accord of the month!? j/k j/k.

[cb7owner]

sorry to hear that dude, i had a girl for 2 years then i never heard from her again till a week ago then she's in new york with a guy that beats her,
when she left me i didnt even know she left me for a a month that was 3 years ago!!

[mozzandherb]

Only time will tell if you are meant to be with her. Like Deev said he broke up with his future wife. Life throws out some suffering sometimes and it's up to you how you deal with it. I know, I understand it's hard and that you're upset and feeling sad, and that's normal, but try not to let it drag the rest of you down. I had this happen to me and I struggled for a while I didn't deal with it all that well, but it happened to be the best thing that had ever happened to me (long story). You have a choice about how you feel and I know that loving someone is a powerful thing and you wish that they felt the same, but sometimes they don't. I reomved myself from the situation, hell I moved back home from Florida because of a girl that I loved. Once you love someone it's hard not to just stop loving them, I still love that girl in Fla, and I always, no matter what. If your ex decides at some point that she wants you back and you know that she is the one, then you have to make a choice. Anyway man I wish you all the best and keep your head up

[203Cree]

my gf of almost 3 1/2 years calls me about 2 hours ago to deliver the bad news, she's decided that she no longer wants to date me and that we are no longer dating. i have absolutely no idea what to do with myself right now. this was the one and only girl for me, and now she's gone.

fuck, sorry about the annoying 8th grade style bitching

Man Zach, I'm sorry to hear that. I had the exact same thing happen to me two weeks ago. At least mine did it in person. Shitty.

Stay up, stay distracted and try not to dwell on it. Need anything, gimme a holler.

[d112crzy]

thanks for all the support guys, it means a lot to hear from people. i keep finding more and more shit i bought specifically for her that i hadn't had the chance to give to her, like a gallon of $28 vw antifreeze. so i sent her an email to see what she wanted me to do with it since they wont take it back. and she was pissed that i asked. i'm so confused shes pissed because i did something nice for her

sell it on ebay dude.

call me if you wana talk dude.

[MikeW]

Shit bro..that fuckin sucks man and werent you going to Seattle for her too That mean you're staying in KC or you still headin out west? Shit man..that really sucks. Just hang in there dude.

[stormblkcb7]

Hey man really sorry to hear about that, I hope everything works out bro. Maybe it was for the the better, things could have gone sour or she could have done something to hurt you

[jboyce]

Dude i will tell you right now from experience, if you live together...move out right NOW, dont talk to her, give her tons of space. don't be a fucking dick to her if you want a second chance, don't sell any of the shit she bought you! don't throw shit away i'm fuckin tellin you, hide it from yourself so you dont loook at it tho, but eventually it will mean alot to her if you kept it all. right now she needs time to breathe and get her head straight. I was with my girl for a 1 1/2 years, we lived together the whole time. I went through the same fuckin thing you're going through right now if not worse, and i know you don't believe i went through the same thing, cause when it happened to me i thought it was the end of the world, i thought nobody had gone throught he same thing as me....our love was special. the girl was my everything i woulda swore on my life we were gettin married, next thing i know we broke up cause she wasnt in love with me, turns out she was talkin to other guys n shit. she started partying alot...she just needed to get space man. i hit rock bottom, i drank everyday, i totalled my car drinking and driving, lost my job, and became homeless for like 6 months. i kept chasing after her and never gave her space, but after i gave her a couple months, she realized, just like your girl will, that she missed me and really loved me. NOBODY i dont care how heartless, can throw away years of memories together. as soon as shes alone she will see things that remind her of you, if she tries to get with another guy, she will continuously compare him to you. she eventually came back, but i had already moved far away so it didnt work out, and it beats me up to this day. i still am having trouble with it and it's been over a year now. i've thought about her everyday single fucking day for over a year, it's that kind of shit that just totally consumes your mind and makes it impossible to find happiness. but it was harder for me because after i hit rock bottom i moved to another city and didnt know anybody, so i was hella lonely. i'm just NOW gettin back on my feet, but it still hurts sometime and feels extremely surreal.


seriously if you need help with this let me know, i sympathize for you hella, and i've traveled damn near every road in regards to your situation so i can give you advice. but i can basically just tell you, give her space man, go out and have fun, dont hide behind alcohol like i did it will make things worse. once some time has passed, run into her somehow, make it look like a accident tho, dont fuckin walk up to her door. move out if you live together, seriously, thats the best bet. good luck bro

[LinX]

Seems like alot of people on here have been there and done that which is natural. I myself am no different. If things work out then ok if they don't then MOVE ON. This is the best peice of advice I can offer. Don't keep dragging it out cus you will be miserable.