What would YOU do?

[qbodsyt]

then I would refund the money.......$220 is nothing compared to the drama I've watched unfold over the last few months. I pay more than that all the time in lost income because I don't like dealing with crap. I would refund the money with an understanding that you stay out of this threads in future and leave it at that

[slowagon]

then I would refund the money.......$220 is nothing compared to the drama I've watched unfold over the last few months. I pay more than that all the time in lost income because I don't like dealing with crap. I would refund the money with an understanding that you stay out of this threads in future and leave it at that

You must understand that I'm normally not a threadwhore. I don't like it, don't promote it, and definately don't like doing it. I have never whored a thread outside of this site and I'm on almost a dozen other sites on a regular basis. There doesn't need to be an understanding as Rich knows once this transaction is complete I will go my way and he will go his.

Because of this transaction going bad I haven't purchased anything from anyone on this site in over a year, which kills me because there have been a few things I really wanted but not only am I wary to buy from anyone I'm afraid my credibility has been somewhat damaged. I'm am an honorable buyer/seller and just want the same in return, as I'm sure all of you do.

[slowagon]

up for some more opinions....

[cleanz_28]

I dont know Much about Paypal...I belive U can File a complaint...Its has been a Year...but I really dont know much about oversea shipping and what not... Thats my 2 pennies... .o2

[d112crzy]

up for some more opinions....

you really cant do anything. Especially since he lives oceans away.

keep this thread alive and making posts in his threads until he ships it/shows proof that he shipped it. just to warn others of what can happen, even tho everyone should already know the risk they take purchasing from someone on the internet.

put a link to this thread or something in your sig as well.

[cebese7en]

a year. 3 months is tolerable, but a year. imo, i think ukaccord should choke it down and deliver the product and a refund. slowagon, once recieving his rack and refund should deliver a message to the site stating the resolution to the conflict.

all we have are our reps on this site and ukaccord's is being destroyed.

[tunerman]

Always get shipping confirmation.

[slowagon]

Always get shipping confirmation.

I tried. Was told there was no tracking number so I'm assuming only proof of shipping is a receipt from the shipper. Haven't seen that receipt so do I have absolute proof of shipment other than Rich's word?...No, but by keeping everyone up to date on the status of this transaction I feel I'm neither letting it fall by the wayside but also am not whoring. Just an informative thread but also wanted to see what you guys would do in this situation-kind of give me an idea if how I'm feeling is totally uncalled for, completely justified, or neither.......

[cebese7en]

u say that i have done hundreds of deals and a few go bad and i get this bullshit

hey man. you f*cked a guy over. you can't say you did not. its your call on if it is bullshit. but a year says a lot to me. i have bought and sold on this site, not internaltional though, but if it took more than three months no matter what, i personally would be done with them. you should count slowagon as an ally. he has sent supplemental funds for the item, yet you still not deliver. And do not explain to me the shipping process because i do not care. you did not deliver...enough said.

[cleanz_28]

hey man. you f*cked a guy over. you can't say you did not. its your call on if it is bullshit. but a year says a lot to me. i have bought and sold on this site, not internaltional though, but if it took more than three months no matter what, i personally would be done with them. you should count slowagon as an ally. he has sent supplemental funds for the item, yet you still not deliver. And do not explain to me the shipping process because i do not care. you did not deliver...enough said.

x2 thats just fucking wrong

[Abeerdrinker]

All I can say UKaccord is just refund the money. I had went threw a money and item issue on this site. I was the seller but all I felt right to do was explain if they did not accept my truthful answer then what else could I do. But I did refund the money to everyone even keeping the admin informed. Since then I tryed to sell local only so that my rep can be rebuilt but I am still not trusted so I cant be that upset cause I prolly would do the same thing. Atleast you didnt get idle threats on someone coming to your home cause your name is known well enough. So refund the money and what ever you do you cant be upset cause the buyer is upset. Your holding the answer to the problem

THE MONEY.

[Abeerdrinker]

So it is clear on my post in this thread is not to bash you or take the other guys side. The advice I gave was to stay rational which you missed by cursing up a storm and being defensive like it sounds which makes you look guilty above. Second you can be the bigger man and let money lay with a neutral party. Item or not nothing gets resolved with cursing via text or voice.

How much talking would you do if you didnt get a item in a timely manner and the person has your money? Be both sides and you will see the best way to resolve the problem. Getting defensive is making it worst then ever.

[slowagon]

Alright guys, lets keep it cool in here.

Rich, you wanted to settle this in pms which from your point of view I can understand why. The problem is, nothing was getting solved and you and I both know that so let's both accept it and move on. For the last month or more every time you sign on msn im or I sign on msn im you ask if it's here yet. After waiting over a year don't you think you'd be the first person I'd notify if the part arrived? Like I have told you via im, I've lived in my house for over 4 years now and neither my house or my mailbox have moved so the problem either lies with you not shipping, which I want to trust you have done, or the shipper, which is either taking forever or has lost the pkg.

You also have to look at it from my point of view though, Rich. You are telling me repeatedly over the last year you've shipped when it was clear you had not and eventually admitted that. On more than one occasion you mocked the fact that you got additional funds from me and stated you were not going to ship anything--which is eventually why I began whoring your for sale threads. I know you have the money to refund me if you wanted to. You made a point via im to let me know about your new Prelude and after reading that thread in which you stated you bought it for less than you sold your Accord for it's clear you have money. Noone is that broke but still has money to buy nice cars.

Rich I have not slammed you once in this thread and I will not do so. I am waiting the additional 2 weeks for the part to arrive but in all honesty I don't think it's going to show up or it would have done so already. My house isn't hard to find so I'm not sure where the breakdown or miscommunication occured, but I can assure you 100% I don't have the part.

[casterX]

..the rest of my parts i have sold i make sure they are in tip top shape by cleaning them etc..

o please.. i'll bite my lip in respect to the OP


need to go buy some popcorn good for 2weeks..

[slowagon]

like i said before regular shipping takes longer and i have only ever sent one package like that an that was to 97lude they were seatbelts and they took around 5 weeks to get to him thas why i ask if u could wait another 2 weeks

True, but you did initially tell me you posted the parts air freight and it would take 2-3 wks tops, but then when you went back you found out it might have been sent ground which would take significantly longer and asked me to wait 2 more weeks. What other choice do I have? I'll wait and hope it shows up but should it not I hope you are prepared to refund me the full amount.