I love my mom, most of you know that, ive made a thread or two about her, like the time she had her stroke, and lots of you helped me cope through it. thanks...
I also love my girlfriend. Now, its not the same kind of love that i have for my mom, not even close. but i do really care about my girl.
well, some of you may already know about the problems she has with her dad because i made a thread a while back about that, too. I think
well, the situation is that she can't go out, or do pretty much anything for that matter, untill she shows her dad her quarterly progress report from school. (this was about a month and a half ago, and she still hasent showed him)
and because of their huge argument, and him kicking her out, she vowed to "not work with him" which i can understand. so shes just going to take his punishment.
so because of that, the past few times (more like three times), we've hung out at her school. without her dad knowing.
well, Wensday is valentines day. and im not the type of kid to do shit behind my parents back, so i go ask my mom, if we (my girl and I) can hang out tomorrow afterschool for valentines day. we cant wensday, because if she comes home late wensday, her dad will definately get suspicious about that.
well, my mom says "I dont know, Danny, let me talk to your dad..."
"Mom, ... If you don't want me to go... then i dont want to go knowing that your uncomfortable..."
now, i swear, im not talking to her with an attitude at all. and my mom, she's actaully pretty steamed and has a raised voice
"Danny. No, i dont want you to go. you just saw her last week!"
"But, mom, it was for her birthday..."
"I dont want you seeing her everytime just because its some kind of occasion."
when she said that, im thinking "wtf? that constitutes a 'how could you?' "
"... But I said I would talk to your dad, and see what he says, because i dont want to be unfair..."
THEN she starts getting all weird on me
"Danny, you cant just keep giving this girl what she wants. she dosent like it when your just 'right there' for her. she likes a guy thats hard to get, not one whos at her all the time like a lost little puppy"
"but mom, shes not like that...."
"Dont be so stupid, Danny, ALL girls are like that. Your not a challenge to her."
"Mom, she is not like that..."
"Yes they are!!"
At this point in time, if my mom were one of my friends, i probably would have socked the shit out of him. taking into account that i wouldn't hit a girl. But shes my mom, so, i just kept my cool and didnt even raise my voice. in fact, i think i was sounding a little helpless and timid....
"And whats with 'Can I please call you back?' why would you have to fucking beg her? Why cant you just be a man and say 'Hey, im gonna call you back"
ok, NOW im thinking "What.. the.......... hell....??? Isnt that common courtesy?"
"Um. mom. she tells me that too. its not like im under her. we treat each other the exact same."
"Danny, Why dont you be a man. She's just playing with you, you dont know... She tells her cousins and her girlfriends "Watch when i tell him this he does it. or watch when i do this, listen to what he says" How do you know she dosent have you on speaker phone sometimes when you two talk?!"
ok, now im thinking "un-fucking believe-able....."
so bottom line, she's still going to talk to my dad about me "going"
FAR be it from me to sound like a spoiled little teenager. but my mom is not fair, and shes wrong.
ive had my girlfriends sister. hell. her MOM has even called and talked to me telling me "You know, my daughter really cares about you. she is always talking to me about you. I'm so happy you can help her through her situations with her father. etc etc insert more 'praise' here."
my girl confides in me, she's told me things that i cant even begin to imagine her telling any one else. we click, its so damn weird. my mom says "Oh, i see you all In love and shit..."
yeah i am in love, but what the hell is wrong with that? I've had many girlfriends, and i never liked any of them. and if i did, it was for the wrong, lustful reasons, that just got me in trouble. with the girlfriend, their friends etc
I may be young, but im not stupid. And i do not want to sound cliche teenager, but my mom dosent understand. but its still extremely hard breaking from her grasp, when ive been held down so much as a younger kid, i've been so shelted. and i just have the image of my mom being "God" to me burnt heavily into my mind, and that kinda frightens me....
But being with Aracely, it makes me really want to tell my parents to just butt out, if she really is playing me which i seriously doubt. let me live and learn. and that this is a situation where if i want your opinion, i will ask for it. its something that they DONT and probably CANT understand because we've grown up completely different ways (my parents and I) and there are things aracely and I have talked about, which shows me that she really does care, that i dont want to tell my mom about, because i know she will be heart broken. because she has that mothers love, and she dosent want to be "challanged"
Christ, other parents are so fucking chill with their kid going out, and having a girlfriend. why does my mom have to be SO controlling.
i would LOVE to talk to my dad, but im so afraid that he will not understand. i really do look up to my father. more than he will probably ever know. but under my mom... its like... i dont know... my mom has more power over my dad....
FUCK!
I also love my girlfriend. Now, its not the same kind of love that i have for my mom, not even close. but i do really care about my girl.
well, some of you may already know about the problems she has with her dad because i made a thread a while back about that, too. I think
well, the situation is that she can't go out, or do pretty much anything for that matter, untill she shows her dad her quarterly progress report from school. (this was about a month and a half ago, and she still hasent showed him)
and because of their huge argument, and him kicking her out, she vowed to "not work with him" which i can understand. so shes just going to take his punishment.
so because of that, the past few times (more like three times), we've hung out at her school. without her dad knowing.
well, Wensday is valentines day. and im not the type of kid to do shit behind my parents back, so i go ask my mom, if we (my girl and I) can hang out tomorrow afterschool for valentines day. we cant wensday, because if she comes home late wensday, her dad will definately get suspicious about that.
well, my mom says "I dont know, Danny, let me talk to your dad..."
"Mom, ... If you don't want me to go... then i dont want to go knowing that your uncomfortable..."
now, i swear, im not talking to her with an attitude at all. and my mom, she's actaully pretty steamed and has a raised voice
"Danny. No, i dont want you to go. you just saw her last week!"
"But, mom, it was for her birthday..."
"I dont want you seeing her everytime just because its some kind of occasion."
when she said that, im thinking "wtf? that constitutes a 'how could you?' "
"... But I said I would talk to your dad, and see what he says, because i dont want to be unfair..."
THEN she starts getting all weird on me
"Danny, you cant just keep giving this girl what she wants. she dosent like it when your just 'right there' for her. she likes a guy thats hard to get, not one whos at her all the time like a lost little puppy"
"but mom, shes not like that...."
"Dont be so stupid, Danny, ALL girls are like that. Your not a challenge to her."
"Mom, she is not like that..."
"Yes they are!!"
At this point in time, if my mom were one of my friends, i probably would have socked the shit out of him. taking into account that i wouldn't hit a girl. But shes my mom, so, i just kept my cool and didnt even raise my voice. in fact, i think i was sounding a little helpless and timid....
"And whats with 'Can I please call you back?' why would you have to fucking beg her? Why cant you just be a man and say 'Hey, im gonna call you back"
ok, NOW im thinking "What.. the.......... hell....??? Isnt that common courtesy?"
"Um. mom. she tells me that too. its not like im under her. we treat each other the exact same."
"Danny, Why dont you be a man. She's just playing with you, you dont know... She tells her cousins and her girlfriends "Watch when i tell him this he does it. or watch when i do this, listen to what he says" How do you know she dosent have you on speaker phone sometimes when you two talk?!"
ok, now im thinking "un-fucking believe-able....."
so bottom line, she's still going to talk to my dad about me "going"
FAR be it from me to sound like a spoiled little teenager. but my mom is not fair, and shes wrong.
ive had my girlfriends sister. hell. her MOM has even called and talked to me telling me "You know, my daughter really cares about you. she is always talking to me about you. I'm so happy you can help her through her situations with her father. etc etc insert more 'praise' here."
my girl confides in me, she's told me things that i cant even begin to imagine her telling any one else. we click, its so damn weird. my mom says "Oh, i see you all In love and shit..."
yeah i am in love, but what the hell is wrong with that? I've had many girlfriends, and i never liked any of them. and if i did, it was for the wrong, lustful reasons, that just got me in trouble. with the girlfriend, their friends etc
I may be young, but im not stupid. And i do not want to sound cliche teenager, but my mom dosent understand. but its still extremely hard breaking from her grasp, when ive been held down so much as a younger kid, i've been so shelted. and i just have the image of my mom being "God" to me burnt heavily into my mind, and that kinda frightens me....
But being with Aracely, it makes me really want to tell my parents to just butt out, if she really is playing me which i seriously doubt. let me live and learn. and that this is a situation where if i want your opinion, i will ask for it. its something that they DONT and probably CANT understand because we've grown up completely different ways (my parents and I) and there are things aracely and I have talked about, which shows me that she really does care, that i dont want to tell my mom about, because i know she will be heart broken. because she has that mothers love, and she dosent want to be "challanged"
Christ, other parents are so fucking chill with their kid going out, and having a girlfriend. why does my mom have to be SO controlling.
i would LOVE to talk to my dad, but im so afraid that he will not understand. i really do look up to my father. more than he will probably ever know. but under my mom... its like... i dont know... my mom has more power over my dad....
FUCK!
luckily my cb7 cant dump me or else i would def kill myself.
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