Mom went through BANK STATEMENTS...reason to flip out?

[ACC0RD22]

Inappropriate!!!!!

Sit your mom down and make boundaries. Yes, you live at home, but in no way should she be going around your back to find out things. If she wants to know what's going on in your life, she should ask you directly. Also opening someone else's mail is a federal offense.

seriously. She may still be your mother (you know thats the reason shes going to give you) but ask her how SHE would feel if HER mother went through all of HER mail. If she pleads that its a different situation, explain to her how its not. At this point, you are an adult, and you deserve the privacy that goes with it. I wouldnt expect any of my roomates to open my mail, and I live with them. we share the same mailbox as well.

[gloryaccordy]

get your own bank account... but hey.. look at the brightside, at least your mom didn't steal 7g's and deny it.

I have my own checking and savings acct., and then another savings acct. with her. The first two are in my name, and those are the statements she checked.

I guess it's hard to provide a context but this is just another bump in the myriad of problems I have with living at home. If it's not being lectured or sent back out as soon as I get in the door it's shit like this. Granted blah blah it could always be worse but it could also be a lot better. I gotta get it together.

[HenRoc]

You need to get out an open your own account man without her knowing.


Thats the only way of getting out of that situation, save up and get your own place.

I mean my mom was a little hard on me when I went back to Mass for 2 months it sucked but I ended up back in New Hampshire afterwards, but the only thing she ever did was impose curfews on me but NEVER went thru my personal accounts, she asked how my bills were and offered to help but I turned them down I don't see it being right having my parents pay for my debt.

Providing me with a place to stay (well after all they cant deny their oldest child) is all that was good enough for me.

[The G-Man]

P.O. box?

[xwade01]

I agree w/ most of the guys here saying it was inappropriate. But do I see a Dr. Phil show comming up?

[g-wagon]

I gotta get it together.

work two jobs... hustle... something man... living at home is the worst! i hate it.. it may be cheaper but damn does it suck.

[gloryaccordy]

work two jobs... hustle... something man... living at home is the worst! i hate it.. it may be cheaper but damn does it suck.

I have the money...but it's not easy getting a place in NYC, and I wanna make sure I get something nice w/someone trustworthy. When I leave I don't wanna come back till the holidays.

[chiaboi_AcCorD]

my opinion, just talk everything out b/c their has to be a REASON why she open ur mail, plus don't do anything that you'll regret later.

[h22sparkle]

my opinion, just talk everything out b/c their has to be a REASON why she open ur mail, plus don't do anything that you'll regret later.

it has to be curiosity.

[2.2AZUL]

sound like boot camp....lol...you need a lock on your door homie

[h22sparkle]

sound like boot camp....lol...you need a lock on your door homie

then theyll really want to get in there

[sirs1ayer]

is living for free and her going through your shit better than paying 500$ a month for an apartment = no.

btw. online banking ftw

[GunRunner]

I think it was wrong for her to go through your stuff, but then again you still live at home (for free I assume). I still live at home with my parents (20 almost 21) and i catch hell about how I spend my money(mainly from mom) but its not too bad for a free place to live. Just gotta deal with it until you can get out.

[doughboy415]

You know to a mother you will always be her little boy,and of course you are still at home at your age, you know that old saying YOU LIVING UNDER MY ROOF, THEN LIVE BY MY RULES, the parent law.

[93EXaesthetic]