No more girlfriend...

[thewoahna]

OK, Today is like the worst day ever. My girlfriend left me because she said that she loves me too much and that I am bringin her school work down. She says that as long as I am around, she is going to want to be with me, and she would not be able to concentrate on her Nursing classes and with working nights it would be hard to get time to see me. She says that I deserve more attention that she cant give me right now. She says she still loves me and that I am the best thing that had ever happend to her, but what the hell, if she still loved me and she cared soo much about me, then she would have made things work. I am going crazy thinking about her, she was the one I wanted to be with got a long ass time. Now, I just feel soo sick to my stomach that I can bearly eat anyhting. Booooo!

[arrozburner]

that sucks man...seems lately like alot of people have been having chick problems...dont worry man, there are plenty of other chicks in the sea...ie chicken of the sea ...so dont worry about losing one...keep your head up and everything will be ok...now go fix something on your car.

[thewoahna]

I dont think I can, too upset. I just dont get it, she still loves me and says I was the best thing to ever happen to her, but she leaves me. If she loved me that much she would have made things work. There are other fish in the sea, but not like her.

[accordtunerx]

did you tell her that you were confused about why, that if she loves you that much, she won't try and make things work?

and if so, what did she say?

[thewoahna]

Yeah, I told her, and she was like, if you really love me, then you would understand why I need to do this. I dont get it, she told me "my first priority is school" I know that no matter how busy I was or ever could be, I would still find time to see her.

[arrozburner]

hmmm...not to be the bearer of bad news but something feels fishy here...anyway, you might think that there arent anymore like her out there and your right...there are other out there that are better than her that wont make you feel like this...mourn the seperation and if you guys dont get back together then move on

[Boost_Lee]

yea, sorry to hear about that man...just keep your head up bro. We're all here for ya Im a big believer in fate, and i think fate will bring you 2 back together if it is really meant to be that way.

[MRX]

<----has trouble eating lately too. Its good that she's atleast telling you all of this and has been straightforward with it. I understand where she's coming from but she would find time if she really wanted to. I worked 2 jobs, one full-time one half-time and juggled a relationship, and part-time classes all at once. I made sure i found time for all but you know what, did have to sacrifice some of my school work time for the relationship, i was mentally tired of having all of that at once, but she'll need freetime just as i did. My freetime was doing my "long way home" routine...maybe her freetime could be you. And put it this way...atleast your chasing a girl that has her head on straight.

[flooredaccord12]

HOW LONG WERE U TOGETHER

[thewoahna]

I have been with her about 9 months now. I was wishin that I would wake up and have a message from her on my phone sayin that she was stupid and that sh didnt know what she was thinking and that she wanted me back. The thing is, I dont think that will ever happen. I tol her, "So is this it? I need to know, I cant take an emotional roller coaster ride right now, I need to know for sure if we are done" and well, she said it was done. She still loves me, she told me, and she said I was the best thing that had ever happend to her. If this is the case, then why is she throwing me out? I adored her and would do anything for her. It makes so sense, its like winning the lottery and then just giving all the money right back. WTF! I know this sounds kinda "mushy", but she was my comfort zone, when I had her in my arms, I felt as nothing could phase me, she made me soo happy! I am still soo upset, still not eating much. I want my princess back! I dont know how I will meet someone better than her, I am soo anti social, I dont go to bars, clubs, parties, and I dont talk much at school. I am like super bummin, I wish I had all my stuff for my dual runner manifild swap, that way I could work on that and have it take my mind off things.

Thanks for all the support yall! I still feel like crap, but at least I got support from you all! I guess I just gotta try the single life for a while.

[accordzoom]

I definitely feel the not being able to eat...


I too have had recent female probs,
i had(past tense) only been seeing her for 2 months and i caught feelings which i try not to do so early in the game ... but sometimes its so hard not to..
anyways right now you just feel as though you have this empty void, and day by day goes by where your thinking about her, things you two did etc, etc..etc

it definitely sucks
but keep your head up and im sure you will either work things out with her or find someone else thats even better for you..

Just dont be slackin on your mackin!
good luck homie

[Slateboy]

You've got a pm.

[Accordasher]

i don't know man, if you were only going out with her for a few months and were already considering staying with her for the rest of your life, maybe you don't know what you want in life. there are plenty of other women out there, i didn't meet my wife until i was 31 and didn't end up marrying her until i was 34. i knew what i wanted after going out with many different women during my 20's. accept things as they are and move on, things change. i've gone out with many women and had a lot of long term relationships and realized after i broke up that they weren't all i thought/built them up to be. i though i loved all of them, but my wife is the only woman i've gone out with that i can truly be myself around and have a good time with. the term is girlFRIEND not girl you go out with even though you don't really enjoy being with them/have much in common with just so you can be with someone. i've realized that after looking back on things. believe it or not, the worst thing you can do right now is going out and finding another girl right away as a rebound. have fun, it's sound like you are young. you have a long time ahead of you before you need to worry about finding someone to spend the rest of your life with. i think the average marriage age for males is like 31 now in the us.

just for the record, i think it is kinda "corny" when guys call girls names like "princess" or "muffin" ect. try acting yourself and the right girl will come to you, just enjoy your freedom right now.

[arrozburner]

im with^ is saying...youre still young and you should goout with chicks so that when you find the right one you will know she is the "right one" and not the "right now" girl...spend some time to yourself, keep yourself busy, for a cb7 meet but do something thatll make you happy and move on...youll find someone that you will spend the rest of your life with..its just too soon right now. im 24 going on 25 and im not thinking about gettin married yet...i will though and if i find that special someone today or tomorrow or 6 months from nowi wont get married right away...it'll happen, patience is a virtue you should really have right now.

[thewoahna]

Cool, thanks all you guys! All you on CB7tuner are all right in my book. Maybe I will spend more time on the site now, I dont got nothin else to do, and if there ever is a meet not too far from Cleveland, maybe I will consider it. Thanks again all, I am still like super upset, maybe oredering my new suspension will cheer my up a little

Thanks again all!