Am I crazy...2 month then proposal

[optimusprime]

Well I knew this girl for about 2 yrs cause we worked together. Well about 2 months ago we started dating. We get along great and everything is awsome. I have meet her whole family and everyone is great with us. She is very happy and so am I. She has a daughter who is 7. I hang out with her and get along very well. She is a great kid. It is crazy to me cause we are very much in love. We talked about marrige a few times already. Kinda to get an idea of how things are in the relationship. We moved pretty fast as far as our feelings for each other. Things feel very right and no problems have really presented them self. I also don't for see any problems with us. There is a bit of an age difference which is about 6yrs. I don't feel that is any kind of problem cause I really don't see it.

Some people think it is too soon for anything but I feel so happy I am tempted to buy a ring and propose for a date prob next year. I mean people get engaged but may not get married for a bit.

I don't know my life is forever changed for the better because of her and with her I feel at such a different level and can honestly see my self with her.

What do you think? too crazy...

[mcdizzle]

my dad proposed to my mom after a month of dating i believe. theyve been married for 21 years now, your do the math. if its meant to be it will last.

[StickyDilJoe]

Yeah I would wait it out....it's always good in the beginning....

[93EXaesthetic]

hmm reminds me of these lyrics



Good times they come and they go
Never going to know
What fate is going to blow
Your way just hope that it feels right
Sometimes it comes and it goes
You take it ever so slow
and then you lose it, then it flows right to you

-Sade

[Shinobi]

best advice is ...follow your heart. but like joey said, everything is always good in tha beginning. another advice is ..try to act like your married, see how that goes?

[Ralphie]

Yea id wait a little bit....if she isnt pushing it and yall are doing great then let it ride out....see where it takes you....ive never been married but from having countless friends that are married i can say that it is a whole another ball game...shit is diff..and sometimes people change too....either way just chill and if it goes good with time itll come along again!

[501accord]

live with her for awile. somthing my dad didnt do with my stepmom, now we really cant stand her, but he doesnt want to get a divorce because she would get our house.

[optimusprime]

yea thanks fellas....I kinda want to wait it out a bit and see how things go and make sure things are for real. I am in no way being pushed to ask her or set a date. She is on a different level and really feels she found me as her soul mate. Things are great and I feel the same way. Things are in my head and just going crazy.....Also with 50% of marrage's ending in divorce. That is not good. We both take marrage very serious and want to make sure it is going to last.

[Ralphie]

Yea then you sound like you got a good thing...so be patient...enjoy it....if its to be it will be...the girl im with now...i love her a lot...she is just too good to me and has a good head on her shoulders and has a good idea of where she wants to go in life. When i get out of the military she is going to move from NY to fla and we going to just chill out while i go back to school and get our own place and just see how things work out...no rushing just enjoying it but till now everything has been perfect.

[ant96gle]

Look at it this way... if you guys are that serious then what are you worrying about?

What difference will marriage really make right now? Personally, I think its best to ride out the relationship as it is going. Within some time that full fledged love feeling is going to wear off a bit. You guys will really get to learn eachother in and out, all those little things that matter. You'll get to experience what it is like to solve eachothers problems, go through life day in and out with eachother and most importantly learn who both of you are.. including yourself. And most importantly you'll get to see eachother in your highs and lows.

There is no need to rush because if you do all of these things during marriage and find that you dont match, then you will have a problem.

If you guys are that serious then being together without being married wont make a difference, you will be faithful to eachother.

[phatdoughnut]

MY friend did something similar only after like 5-6 months, and later on he found out she was some psycho biatch..... true story.

[TekSi]

(teks gf)Do what you feel is right in your heart. If you're a little skeptical about what she might think, bring it up in conversation as a hypothetical thing. I have no clue if this is good advice or not, plus, it's easier to say than to type.

[YellowCord]

take it slow dood, it too fast to get married. some people say that a girl will show her true self when she is married. so yea, devorce is not a good thing, especially she have a kid.

[starkrice]

kudos for my man jaime!!!

[lil_dcb7]

LOL @ Alex

bro, i know exactly how you feel, i've been with my chick for a good three months and we're already talking about very long term goals and commitments. the only difference is our(mine and yours) age difference. im 16 and still very young, but what me and my girl have just feels so right.

I suggest you wait it out man, if you love her, dont let those feelings change, enjoy what you have. get shit straight then pop the question.

Im happy for you bro, if any one's deserved it, its you