cheating......

[Gemini]

you're more fucked up than jboyce

What the fucked does that mean?

[Gemini]

why you say that?








People usually cheat because there is a conflict between their physical and emotional desires...

i think you hit the nail on the head with that statement!

[shoxr10]

Another question....

If you were getting cheated on, would you wanna know?

I don't know if I would want to know myself....I don't know what I would do

this is the reason why the entire thread was started. She cheated on me first with my boy and he's the one who told me whats up. He gave me the usual "it just happened" story. I'm a man and I'm not going to fight another person over a girl. I'm mad but what really gets to me is that she didn't have the ovaries to tell me what's up. Be straight up and honest. People live and learn from mistakes so why not acknowledge that you're wrong??? Give me the chance to forgive you or not. She cheated me physically and mentally. I know that two wrongs don't make a right but that wrong sure felt good.

Another thing that I noticed in my situations with women is that, women have a tendency to make themselves available at your weakest point. I never went out with the intent for payback but, women were giving me the "look" and you al know what that is......What am I to do if the girl i'm with cheats on me and I have this beautiful light-skinned, 5-6, 135lbs, thick thighs, nice ass, long haired girl willing to do whatever I wanted. It was the same girl I was having the conversation with at the beginning of the thread. (sex was followed by pillow talk)

[King James]

My definition of cheating is basically you can look but do not touch

I have never cheated...Everyone (Friends, enemies, gf, family) all believed i cheated on my ex gf because i helped this slutty girl study for physics last year...Although she may have been slutty i did not cheat...I just helped cuz me and this girl go way back...She offered...I turned it down...I would not have changed a thing about wat all happened cuz of that...Even tho everyone thought i cheated and my gf broke up with me...I knew i didnt so it didnt matter to me...And now a year later everyone is finding out that i didnt cheat so they all feel like little bitches

Have i been cheated on before is kinda a shady area...I believe i was because my ex got a new bf while we were kidna goin out...Not technically but we were basically...I believed she cheated no one else did...Fucked out things work out like that.

I have no urge to cheat...My gf does things that 99% of the girls in the world would not do

[Gemini]

this is the reason why the entire thread was started. She cheated on me first with my boy and he's the one who told me whats up. He gave me the usual "it just happened" story. I'm a man and I'm not going to fight another person over a girl. I'm mad but what really gets to me is that she didn't have the ovaries to tell me what's up. Be straight up and honest. People live and learn from mistakes so why not acknowledge that you're wrong??? Give me the chance to forgive you or not. She cheated me physically and mentally. I know that two wrongs don't make a right but that wrong sure felt good.

Another thing that I noticed in my situations with women is that, women have a tendency to make themselves available at your weakest point. I never went out with the intent for payback but, women were giving me the "look" and you al know what that is......What am I to do if the girl i'm with cheats on me and I have this beautiful light-skinned, 5-6, 135lbs, thick thighs, nice ass, long haired girl willing to do whatever I wanted. It was the same girl I was having the conversation with at the beginning of the thread. (sex was followed by pillow talk)

I dont care what no one else says but i'm proud of you. It seems that your transition is not gonna be too rocky like most people. I know if i found out about something like that i would go crazy and i expected the same thing of my ex-girl if she had found out that i cheated back then. Seems like you are really mature and that shit helps alot in situations like this....

[Gemini]

My definition of cheating is basically you can look but do not touch

I have never cheated...Everyone (Friends, enemies, gf, family) all believed i cheated on my ex gf because i helped this slutty girl study for physics last year...Although she may have been slutty i did not cheat...I just helped cuz me and this girl go way back...She offered...I turned it down...I would not have changed a thing about wat all happened cuz of that...Even tho everyone thought i cheated and my gf broke up with me...I knew i didnt so it didnt matter to me...And now a year later everyone is finding out that i didnt cheat so they all feel like little bitches

Have i been cheated on before is kinda a shady area...I believe i was because my ex got a new bf while we were kidna goin out...Not technically but we were basically...I believed she cheated no one else did...Fucked out things work out like that.

I have no urge to cheat...My gf does things that 99% of the girls in the world would not do

lucky man

[h22sparkle]

I know exactly what some people mean, As far as the crazyness,crazy chicks keep callin the crib especially when your with ya girl. I get phonecalls all times of night,blowin up the phone,family barkin at me because this chick be callin my phone and housephone at all times of night when im trying to sleep. Ringing my housebell when im not home peekin through the window over my fence to see if my car was there,still trying to come through the door when my family is still like nope hes not home. I round the block trying to duck em and they hear my loud ass muffler from a mile away and come through the crib 5 minutes later when they know im home.


Or I can be sleep and my family just lets this girl in the house and they be like hes sleep and shell still be like okay its no biggie ill come down anyway and wake him up. It was a real nightmare mane thats why I just had to get away . I never knew this effect that just onetime of layin some good pipe would have an effect on this individual. Thats why i had to get outta there. True sick puppy Ive also learned that the body fragrance obsession was not just a cologne not made by calvin klein some people just have a hard time letting go. I wish wherever this person is now that they are doin well for themself but for the next dude that dates them or is with them still is my thoughts are here you can have her I dont want nothing to do with her

[Gemini]

I know exactly what some people mean, As far as the crazyness,crazy chicks keep callin the crib especially when your with ya girl. I get phonecalls all times of night,blowin up the phone,family barkin at me because this chick be callin my phone and housephone at all times of night when im trying to sleep. Ringing my housebell when im not home peekin through the window over my fence to see if my car was there,still trying to come through the door when my family is still like nope hes not home. I round the block trying to duck em and they hear my loud ass muffler from a mile away and come through the crib 5 minutes later when they know im home.


Or I can be sleep and my family just lets this girl in the house and they be like hes sleep and shell still be like okay its no biggie ill come down anyway and wake him up. It was a real nightmare mane thats why I just had to get away . I never knew this effect that just onetime of layin some good pipe would have an effect on this individual. Thats why i had to get outta there. True sick puppy Ive also learned that the body fragrance obsession was not just a cologne not made by calvin klein some people just have a hard time letting go. I wish wherever this person is now that they are doin well for themself but for the next dude that dates them or is with them still is my thoughts are here you can have her I dont want nothing to do with her

lol

[2.2AZUL]

this is the reason why the entire thread was started. She cheated on me first with my boy and he's the one who told me whats up. He gave me the usual "it just happened" story. I'm a man and I'm not going to fight another person over a girl. I'm mad but what really gets to me is that she didn't have the ovaries to tell me what's up. Be straight up and honest. People live and learn from mistakes so why not acknowledge that you're wrong??? Give me the chance to forgive you or not. She cheated me physically and mentally. I know that two wrongs don't make a right but that wrong sure felt good.

Another thing that I noticed in my situations with women is that, women have a tendency to make themselves available at your weakest point. I never went out with the intent for payback but, women were giving me the "look" and you al know what that is......What am I to do if the girl i'm with cheats on me and I have this beautiful light-skinned, 5-6, 135lbs, thick thighs, nice ass, long haired girl willing to do whatever I wanted. It was the same girl I was having the conversation with at the beginning of the thread. (sex was followed by pillow talk)

lol...good one with the ovaries......any way.........YOU SEE what i'm saying.......she did it with your BOY....thats a nono.....now you lost a chick and a friendship.......she didn't want to tell you because she didn't want you to dump her....or fuck her up......and he told you cause he wanted more from her and she wasn't giving it up anymore........if your friend can fuck your girl than YOU HANGING AROUND the wrong ppl and if you girl can fuck your man without feeling bad about than YOUR LOOKING FOR CHICKS IN THE WRONG PLACE MY FRIEND....but than it doesn't matter where you look.....you just have to learn from the mistakes......it takes a couple of heartaches to get to the man/woman that your suppose to spend your life with........

its always like that.....a man can be turn to his girl but the girl aint true to him and the girl can be true to her man but the man ain't true with her.............good luck on finding a partner who doesn't cheat like you...its rare in deed............

[shoxr10]

I dont care what no one else says but i'm proud of you. It seems that your transition is not gonna be too rocky like most people. I know if i found out about something like that i would go crazy and i expected the same thing of my ex-girl if she had found out that i cheated back then. Seems like you are really mature and that shit helps alot in situations like this....

thanks man.

[Bongo]

I have never cheated on a girl and never will (and yes I HAVE had the chance to plenty of times and not nasty girls either). I have been cheated on before though and that is probably what makes me so against it because it seriously sucks if you actually care about the person. I just don't understand why someone would be in a relationship if they want to be with a different person anyways. If you want to be a "playa" or whatever then just end the relationship and go mess around without fucking with someone's feelings because in my opinion it's just fucking low.

[shoxr10]

lol...good one with the ovaries......any way.........YOU SEE what i'm saying.......she did it with your BOY....thats a nono.....now you lost a chick and a friendship.......she didn't want to tell you because she didn't want you to dump her....or fuck her up......and he told you cause he wanted more from her and she wasn't giving it up anymore........if your friend can fuck your girl than YOU HANGING AROUND the wrong ppl and if you girl can fuck your man without feeling bad about than YOUR LOOKING FOR CHICKS IN THE WRONG PLACE MY FRIEND....but than it doesn't matter where you look.....you just have to learn from the mistakes......it takes a couple of heartaches to get to the man/woman that your suppose to spend your life with........

I hear that but at the sametime, my girl was so sexy to me and my boys. We met her at a birthday party. She was walking by us and my boy stopped her. We were all talking, having a good time and if anybody was going make something happen, it would be me. I asked her for her number and the rest is history. She loves Basketball so I invited her to come watch the NBA playoffs with me and the guys. Nothing big but I guess since my boy had already spoken to her at the b-day party, it was no biggie for him to conversate with her again and I had no problem with it. I can see where my mistake was but I can't be faulted for that. I guess that's where things started jumpin' off for them.....

[Shadow1]

ill put it point blank:










why cheat? if you dont want to be with that person or you want to find some more booty somewhere else break up with that person. there is no " it just happened." YOU put yourself in that position alone with that guy/girl so it is YOUR FAULT. no one elses. dont blame it on the girl. dont blame it on the guy. think about it:

if you WERENT alone in the room(or what ever place you were at) would you have done it anyway?

[2.2AZUL]

I hear that but at the sametime, my girl was so sexy to me and my boys. We met her at a birthday party. She was walking by us and my boy stopped her. We were all talking, having a good time and if anybody was going make something happen, it would be me. I asked her for her number and the rest is history. She loves Basketball so I invited her to come watch the NBA playoffs with me and the guys. Nothing big but I guess since my boy had already spoken to her at the b-day party, it was no biggie for him to conversate with her again and I had no problem with it. I can see where my mistake was but I can't be faulted for that. I guess that's where things started jumpin' off for them.....

WELL keep your boys away from your next girl....lol.......she was LOOSE to begin with.......just move on.......the next girl will be even sexy than she is......maybe that girl that you had pillow talks and beyond with looks better than she does...........


when one fucks up there another to take his/her place....when one doesn't do it all...theres another that will do everything..................no complains from my man.........keeping him guessing, full, satisfy in every way....*wink wink*

[Accord R33]

ill put it point blank:










why cheat? if you dont want to be with that person or you want to find some more booty somewhere else break up with that person. there is no " it just happened." YOU put yourself in that position alone with that guy/girl so it is YOUR FAULT. no one elses. dont blame it on the girl. dont blame it on the guy. think about it:

if you WERENT alone in the room(or what ever place you were at) would you have done it anyway?

I think this is the first time i have ever agreed with you!. might be the last, but its definitly the first