I shouldn't be 22 still struggling with my parents...my dad's a doctor, right? And for as long as I've existed I've had postnasal drip, which makes me have to clear my throat all the time. So being the blame shifting dude he is, rather than just prescribe me the medicine, he tells me "you dont take this thing serious. you could just ask me and ill prescribe the medicine for you". WTF? What difference does it make whether I ask you or not? It's been like this for years. Does he need me to personally ask him? Arrrrghhh I can't wait to move out, I can't deal with this. I wanna sit and talk important and intellectual stuff with him but I can't deal with the bull...granted I've provided my share of bull as well, so I dunno. Maybe we'll never see eye to eye. I just hope we can make peace one day.
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i have that post nasal drip too, but i have to spit lugi's
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Originally posted by JoshMOkay to do: "I'm sorry I broke your mailbox, here's $100.
NOT okay to do: "I'm sorry I fucked your sister, here's $100.
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Sounds like he wants you to be more resposible which all just a part of growing up. You might not see eye to eye now, and it may take a long time, but it'll happen if you are both willing to try. I went through this with my parents, but I was a total hellion growing up and they had good reason not to trust me or believe anything I said. It took about 8 years of doing good things and trying to have a good relationship with them until they finally started treating me like the adult that I am. It will take time, patience, love, and respect for both of you to see eye to eye. good luck bro!
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Because they are our parents, it does not mean they must spoon feed us. Like Pat said, its all a part of growing up. For the most part they look at you as a young man who is capable of taking care of his own life. And when that young man needs help, they feel like that young man will know to ask them. If they were to just offer their help, the young man may think that his parents are attached and are imposing. (pardon the wording, but I'm dead tired)
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