Hello,
I have this problem. I don't normally talk about this kinda stuff, but this is really really screwin' with me. You see, there's this girl, her name is Heather, and then there's this guy, his mane is Evan. Well, Heather had this thing for Evan, but Evan didn't give a damn. Even though Heather was horribly interested in Evan, and she is a beautiful, free-spirited girl, Evan didn't care one bit. So he eventually started to just play along with her so he could say he was "pimping" her. Eventually, Heather got mad because Evan wouldn't actually be "hers", he just hung out with her and played her. She confronted him about it and he got pissed and told her how it was, and that he didn't want to see her again. By this time, her and myself had been talking a little bit, and she was volunteering to help me clean my car and whatnot...Well, we kept talking, and I got to know her really good. I would go out to her house, and I'd go with her to Lawrenceburg and stay three or four days with her (about 85 miles from here). She told me that she really really liked me and that if I had came along about 3 months earlier, she'd be all mine, which doesn't make sense to me. Evan has since come back talking to her, but I'm not sure why. She talks to him and stuff, but I'm still going places with her, and she tells me she loves me, but I don't know what I'm doing. It's like she liked him and it died, so me and her started things up, then he came back and started talking to her. I spend a whole lotta time with her and she's racked up a LOT of hours in the CB7, but she still talks to him like 3 times a week, and I don't know how to translate what she's doing into usable information. So if anybody can help, then go for it. I don't wanna just up and leave her, because she's been here since like January, and we have connected and grown into each other so much that it's be hard to let go. I just don't know what to do. If only girls could be like cars...
I have this problem. I don't normally talk about this kinda stuff, but this is really really screwin' with me. You see, there's this girl, her name is Heather, and then there's this guy, his mane is Evan. Well, Heather had this thing for Evan, but Evan didn't give a damn. Even though Heather was horribly interested in Evan, and she is a beautiful, free-spirited girl, Evan didn't care one bit. So he eventually started to just play along with her so he could say he was "pimping" her. Eventually, Heather got mad because Evan wouldn't actually be "hers", he just hung out with her and played her. She confronted him about it and he got pissed and told her how it was, and that he didn't want to see her again. By this time, her and myself had been talking a little bit, and she was volunteering to help me clean my car and whatnot...Well, we kept talking, and I got to know her really good. I would go out to her house, and I'd go with her to Lawrenceburg and stay three or four days with her (about 85 miles from here). She told me that she really really liked me and that if I had came along about 3 months earlier, she'd be all mine, which doesn't make sense to me. Evan has since come back talking to her, but I'm not sure why. She talks to him and stuff, but I'm still going places with her, and she tells me she loves me, but I don't know what I'm doing. It's like she liked him and it died, so me and her started things up, then he came back and started talking to her. I spend a whole lotta time with her and she's racked up a LOT of hours in the CB7, but she still talks to him like 3 times a week, and I don't know how to translate what she's doing into usable information. So if anybody can help, then go for it. I don't wanna just up and leave her, because she's been here since like January, and we have connected and grown into each other so much that it's be hard to let go. I just don't know what to do. If only girls could be like cars...
Anyway...tell her how you fell and that you are not going to be screwed around with. If she is starting to show interest in this Evan character again, then tell her you are going to cut her ass loose if she continues to play you. It sounds like she is making you her "re-bound" boyfriend.
j/k...you're on thin ice, you gotta play it cool. Obviously Evan's a bad dude, so you gotta convince her of that without sounding like a hater. That's the right thing to do. Me, like me Yaw, what would I do? I'd lay down the law, like 'its Evan or me, go ahead, make a move'...cause ultimately that's what it comes down to...but I'd prob. lose in that situation. So it's up to you man. Personally I don't like indecisive chicks or chicks still dealing w/prior situations, but if you like her then do what you gotta do to isolate you and her from anyone else. Good luck and God speed. 
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