Interesting turn of events

[DRAGGEN]

Well most of the ppl on here dont know me, well i tend to keep my private life..well just that Private. But this is something i need some input on.

1.I am currently getting a divorce. i have two daughters 1 and 4months thats not a big deal i have worked everything out with my ex on visitation.
2.My mother passed away in april, left me alot of bills not a big deal either i make good money.
3.May 2005 i get an email from my first girlfreind in highschool, well my only gf in highschool we dated from i was a freshman till middle part of my college freshman year. The relationship didnt end badly just ended she moved to the east coast for college and i havent talked to her in all that time some 16 years ago. i havent tried to contact her or anything but she found me, well wasnt to hard i live in the same town still, moved back about a year ago to take care of my mother in her house. She is married and has two kids, but isnt happy she still lives on the east coast, and wants to come visit me next month when she is back with her husband, my only question is what do you think i should say yes or no, we have a history and im am getting the feeling she needs a reason to leave her husband and i am that reason.

[RyderzUnlimited]

since your single, I'd do it. But only if your ready for it. It has been a long time since you have seen her. She could be butt ugly now. and it could be a waste of time. if she is willing to leave her husband. would u want to be with her, and her kids?

[souldoubt]

im am getting the feeling she needs a reason to leave her husband and i am that reason.

you're 100% right. don't do it, don't be the cruch, both of you are @ a low point/ weak point. it'll only end up in more heart ache. as for the big D, don't sweat it, i went through it, and did what i was told would never hapen, i got custody of my boys. remeber if their anything you got, thats time. keep you head up and do whats best for you, (and your kids if you have any). don't worry about anyone else.

good luck

[DRAGGEN]

since your single, I'd do it. But only if your ready for it. It has been a long time since you have seen her. She could be butt ugly now. and it could be a waste of time. if she is willing to leave her husband. would u want to be with her, and her kids?

lol you and your fixation on looks. i have seen recent pics of her and she is still as hot as ever. Im at a point in my life where im actually ok. so yeah the divorce is amazingly simple the wife didnt want to be married anymore so i told her there was the door and if she walked she did so with only what she came with. i have recieved a large chunk of money from my mothers death and i was afraid it would be a target but i have an amazing brother that put the money into a account under his name but we both have to sign for the money. the bank lets me take loans if i need it so i have no worries. i have the two daughters but they now have trust accounts that will ensure they will never have to worry till there out of college. im not ready for a relationship and she is well aware of that but continues to tell me that she is coming to visit me. I guess i had better take the safe route and meet her in a public place.

[bracersi]

You are in the middle of a divorce with 2 kids and you want to know if you should talk to this woman.......... . You need to slow way down. Your only concern should be those kids right now. Divorce is the hardest thing when it comes to children and really you don't have free time for women. Not only that but this other woman has a husband. You just got out of some drama you don't need anymore for awhile.
How did your mom leave you with bills? My mom passed away 2 years ago with alot of debt and I was not held liable at all even when I was the next of kin. If anyone is trying to make you pay you need to go give them the middle finger. You are not responsible for your mothers debt unless you cosigned with her on some shit.

[RyderzUnlimited]

tha only thing that is messing with me, is that she is still married. im sure her husband has no clue that she wants to meet you. so that just seems shady. you dont want someone like that, bcuz you alwayz take tha chance of her doin that to you.

and yes, please think about tha kids. my parents are divorced, and have been since i was like 3. and till this day, it hurts me. i wonder what my life would be like if they were still together.

[DRAGGEN]

yeah hey my girls come first if they are here than fuck that. Oh and her husband knows me. we all come from the same small town.

[HenRoc]

Yea but do you think she just wants to see you as an old friend or more than that.

Kids definitely come first....but IMO I'd say let it be for now and let things cool off a bit man.

[phatdoughnut]

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[gloryaccordy]

Make sure she's fully through with dude. I was the other man for like 3 years, it's not worth it...If she is then go for it I guess.

[Boost_Lee]

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damn juan thats old skool!

as for the advice bro, just take things slow. I am no one to judge, but what if she just heard about the money and became interested? Or maybe she truely has a spot in her heart for you. All i can say is take things slow, be wise, keep your eyes open, and dont lose sight of ur little girls- they are what matters.