Love sucks Part2

[HenRoc]

couldn't have...wow...she put the nail...wow. I bow to this woman.

I agree with Toine, Luv is truly right about this one Zig , that girl or whatever she likes to be called sounds like she's a bit to immature for relationships..and cant handle a damn thing. she could be a nut case and a half for all we know.

But in all seriousness, if a girls gonna be playing the ' i hate you' game then kick her ass to curb. No sense in drinking your sorrows away when you can just find someone whos closer and maybe a bit older (ok so my gfs older than me by 5 months but Im still taller ). I figured that out after I met my gf Becca (Ej8Lvr) and I didnt feel so empty because 1) shes my age, 2) we can talk about alot without getting uncomfortable about a subject.



We just celebrated our one year this past Saturday went to a Amusement Park even though it rained but what the hell. You'll learn that you can have alot more fun with people your age and you'll find you have more things in common..its a terrible thing to hear one of our members is drinking away his sorrows and unhappiness rather than letting her go and finding someone he can relate too.

Your a good guy Ziggen...and drinking isnt gonna solve the problem Amigo.

[hondagurlex21]

The female has issues and you need to run very far away from her. She seems as if she wanted you to feel sorry for her when she needed to just suck it up and be a woman.Honestly how young is this girl it seems to me that she is only playing mind games with you. As I said in the previous sentence stay away from her and forget about the whole incident. Another small bit of advice wear a condom that probably would have solved this. Afraid of it breaking you obiously know of the "adult type store" buy some lube.

[bracersi]

Honestly dude, Why not try spending a couple of months on your own. I did that once and it was very relaxing. The right chick tends to show up when you are not looking, or even thinking about it anyway. Take some time out to do what you want, like working on your car, or I dunno, whatever you enjoy doing that dosn't involve women.

Oh and by the way, by any chance do you know if I can use a p14 with a f20a dohc

[MRX]

and why does "i hate you" sound so...highschool

[arrozburner]

cass put it down nice and simple...so did hondagirlex...they both have the same advice and theyre both chicks so i say listen to them...i wish i wouldve had that type of advice when i was going through the same stuff...good luck man and drinking isnt going to solve anything...although i could use a drink right about now

[HenRoc]

Probably cause of these two reasons:

1) Shes a young girl whos still got her head stuck in the highschool days.

-----or-----

2) Shes IN highschool and still has the drama baggage.

[r0gergcm]

i kno its hard but just act like u dun care about her ne more. if she really wants u she'll try to contact u. if not, she wasnt for u and there are many more in the sea.

[ZigenBallZ]

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[phatdoughnut]

im glad she is legal, pheeeeeeeeeeewe... man that would suck, you know the parents would immidiatly press charges..

Im happy for you, yEY! for strippers and one night stands.. w00t

[EJ8lvr]

I see many loose women, one night stands and strippers in my immediate future...

Thats awesome!!! Do your thing

[HenRoc]

just dont let women get in the way of your life, if you put your life on hold for a girl then she'll expect it always, and you'll never get what you want or be happy. my ex dumped me over the summer, online of all ways, and when i got back to school i planned on being a huge man whore, well after i made out and got no further with this one chick, i found my current girfriend, so just dont go looking for love and you will usually find it

Dude I wanted to become a ManHO. But yeah Im content with my gf

[ZigenBallZ]

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[ZigenBallZ]

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[i'm the girl]

WHY DID YOU CALL HER!!!!! I am telling you, this bitch is CRAZY!

Man I'm sorry, but I'd shake you if I could. ... I know its hard but you just need to back off

1) Do you know first hand that her dad is only mad at you? And sorry, but if they're so religious, wheres her mom in all this? (I understand if she's passed away, and thats a sorry thing - but if they're split up then he's a fucking hypocrite and thats where her problems start)

2) OF COURSE she got wierd b/c you said you'd mail it to her. SHE WANTS to see you again. She needs to feel that amount of control because that's how she lives her life, through being childish and controlling others. Her anger and atitutude are her way of trying to call your bluff; trying to keep you close - but you instead have shown her that you really AREN'T interested and that she is the only one playing head games. So now it sounds like she's grabbing at straws trying to get under your skin and still keep you talking to her... PLEASE DON'T BUY IT!!!!

3) Also, since she's legal, fortunately for you there's nothing her dad can do about it. So no matter what twisted story she bubbles out to whom, no one else can do anything about it. ... And with a family like that she probably didn't have to fabricate too much off the actual story -- through her level of maturity and her general actions, its obvious that she never faced too many challenges growing up - she is used to other people taing care of her; and how she wants/ what she wants, when she wants it

Man this sucks, and I don't know you personally - but something says to me that you're good people; and I hate when us good people get played like this.

Who knows, if she's played the "s" card, she may very well being playing the "p" card now to keep your attention. I knew a girl who played it for 3 months with my best friend, until she said she was going to send an ultrasound (this relationship had some distance) and then suddenly had a miscarriage ...

Just keep your distance. My advice. And make sure she's blocked from your AIM and whatnot. you don't need that.

[i'm the girl]

PS...

I just realized this:

If she really wanted to talk to you, she'd have CALLED YOU - the text messaging of such IMPORTANT info is an obvious line. And you bit it TWICE.

She's just playing with you. And it's working. Please don't give her the satisfaction. If there's a real problem she probably won't tell you.