Love sucks Part2

[ZigenBallZ]

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[drucifer92]

She SHOULD calm down within a few days or a week maybe, most girls do. Perhaps it was her time of the month.

[93accordexcoupe]

^^^thats what i was thinking too, my gf gets kinda out of control sometimes at that time and i just wait it out, its tough cause i think she hates me but deep down i know she doesnt and things just get better with time. just wait it out dude, like u said before its not the end of the world for either of u. good luck and keep ur head up.

[deevergote]

Man, that's a mess... All you did was care about her and she hates you for it. Honestly, you did the best thing. You did what you could, and when you felt you were at your limit, you made a plan to do more (assuming you really WOULD tell her dad). If she's too damn selfish to realize that you were looking out for her interests (like you really WANT to go to her dad and say "sir, I may have knocked up your daughter and now she wants to kill herself... sorry."... right...) If she was too selfish to think of anyone but herself with her suicide plans (family that will miss her, a child that will be unborn, a father who might actually WANT the baby, planned or not.) then she's not worth your time. I know it's hard, but man... from the impression I've gotten from this story (which I know is limited and biased, so I'm not taking it is an end-all) it would be harder to have her around than to lose her at this time. Once the "new" wears off, that selfish girl is what you would have left. And from how you talk about her, I can imagine that you would treat her like gold no matter how she acted!

Sorry for the loss, and for all the frustration it caused. I hope you can find yourself in a better situation soon!

[Metaluna21]

Well think about it this way, maybe you've now seen a side of her that you dont like either. It goes both ways. Girls have a good way of making guys feel like crap. I'd just wait it out and let her come to you. If she's gonna freak cause you were trying to help her, then forget about her and her attitude. That's what I think.

[arrozburner]

if she over reacted lilke this once, she'll do it again...speaking from personal experence, if you didnt like how she reacted to this situation, it'll be hard but just move on.

[bracersi]

Totally agree with everything deevergote said.
On the same token, You think things is gonna get better if you actually stay with her dude? Nope! It does get worse. Your friends are right, listen to them. And you are right too, this is ridiculous. My wife was hella laid back when we first met, 6 years later I find myself sometimes getting ready to pack my bags and head for the mexican border. I'm not saying that all relationships are headed for disaster, not even saying women are bad. Just try finding a woman that doesn't give you any shit for the first year. Try finding a woman that hates drama and attention as much as you do. Someone saying that they are gonna kill themselves over being pregnant is just childish. At the same token someone who acts like that has no business reproducing. Go hit the clubs this weekend and get yourself some fuckin poontang and forget about her.

[MRX]

if she over reacted lilke this once, she'll do it again

Agreed...from personal experience. But they also calm down a bit later...thats from personal experience too

[ChIoVnIdCa]

How old is she and is she really pregnant or just worried about it.

[93accordexcoupe]

read dude, shes not pregnant. she thought she was gunna be and she flipped out

[phatdoughnut]

uh yeah, kick her to the curb... odds are higher then 50 percent if shes done it once..

plus good thing she isnt pregnate.. if she was under age.. eeeeeeeeeKkkkkkk!

[i'm the girl]

Let the bitch go...

... i know it sucks - but she's already younger than you plus she is obviously young for her age, if you know what i mean.

I don't want to get into how many friends I've had to bury over their own selfishness... ... but lets just say i have a cold heart towards people who use the S word as a means of grabbing attention or acting out. honestly i don't think you overreacted in that right. if she's gonna pull that, and later decide her overreactions don't matter but yours do, well fuck it. Love is a two way street and she's driving on the sidewalk thinking no one will notice.

I also dont want to get into religion family or personal details about my life... ...but ive been down pregnancy scare road... and she's obviously not mature enough to handle sex if she's gonne freak out like that at the possible consequences. yes, it's expected to get worried nervous or scared... but if she's gonna push herself to the extreme of saying "well ill just kill myself" then she has way to many self esteem issues and otherwise that you don't need to be burdened with.


and look at it this way. she's NOT pregnant. so you don't owe her anything. It sucks how you feel, and I understand... but let her go - you're better than that bullshit.

[MRX]

honestly i don't think you overreacted in that right. if she's gonna pull that, and later decide her overreactions don't matter but yours do, well fuck it. Love is a two way street and she's driving on the sidewalk thinking no one will notice.

couldn't have...wow...she put the nail...wow. I bow to this woman.

[WiKKeDV16]

so um.. what did i tell you from the get-go when u go into it with this chic? i told your ass to be careful since ur past experiences have been all that great.. but nooo you fall right into this chics trap.. for a few months.. which sucks cause uve put YOUR ENTIRE LIFE (F20a stuff included ) on hold.. i mean have a relationship.... but dont hang everything else up for it..

kick her to the gutter mang.. and drive on by screaming to 7k

[i'm the girl]

couldn't have...wow...she put the nail...wow. I bow to this woman.

thanks.

and something else i forgot to mention: anyone who causes you to put your life on hold, anyone with whom you find yourself living almost two lives, hiding things, having two sets of friends, whatever... it's not worth it - it becomes a steep uphill battle that drops off into misery, and by that point you're too weak to get yourself out of it. the one who's worth it willl NEVER make you compromise who you truly are including your opinions, friends, interests, hobbies, clothing... everything.





it will just work.