Disregard females.

[keepinitclean]

I've never had a girlfriend

Im in my teen years and I fear getting rejected...enjoy what lasted

[stevediraddo]

I've never had a girlfriend

Im in my teen years and I fear getting rejected...enjoy what lasted

i was this. funny how life works tho.. you're single, cant get a girl to look at you. in a relationship, suddenly they all want you. think you have it all? it shatters. tired of being in a relationship? cant get out. Once you're out, you want back in. Its a confusing and horrible experience with the illusion of being so good. but remember you cant have ups without downs.

"love is giving someone the power to destroy you, and hoping they dont" -anon

[crazymikey]

It's been 2 weeks since she let me go.

Just happened to see her sign on MSN tonight and I thought nothing of it. After a few minutes she messaged me, and we had a little chat for about 15 minutes.

That little chat literally healed so much hurt that I've had. We're back on speaking terms, she still wants me around, but set the boundaries clear right now....She does not want a relationship right now. She still has feelings for me, but she's not ready for anything to happen. We went too far too fast.

I definetly feel better that she's the one that came back, because I was trying to let her go and get over her because she hurt me that bad.

Figured I'd just update with that, because I have literally been a mopey, miserable wreck for the past 2 weeks and it's been showing. I haven't been the same person lately.

Even as a friend right now, I'd rather have her as that than nothing at all. I feel like we made leaps and bounds after giving each other some time and then apologizing and explaining it calmly together. Just to get my head around it has finally made me see the light and be able to move forward.

[Night Wolf]

does not want a relationship right now.

sounds like she just wants to fuck around, riding every dude out there. then she might go back to you after shes run out of dudes.

[Gemini]

It's been 2 weeks since she let me go.

Just happened to see her sign on MSN tonight and I thought nothing of it. After a few minutes she messaged me, and we had a little chat for about 15 minutes.

That little chat literally healed so much hurt that I've had. We're back on speaking terms, she still wants me around, but set the boundaries clear right now....She does not want a relationship right now. She still has feelings for me, but she's not ready for anything to happen. We went too far too fast.

I definetly feel better that she's the one that came back, because I was trying to let her go and get over her because she hurt me that bad.

Figured I'd just update with that, because I have literally been a mopey, miserable wreck for the past 2 weeks and it's been showing. I haven't been the same person lately.

Even as a friend right now, I'd rather have her as that than nothing at all. I feel like we made leaps and bounds after giving each other some time and then apologizing and explaining it calmly together. Just to get my head around it has finally made me see the light and be able to move forward.

I'm happy you are feeling a lil better but she did state from the beginning she didnt wanna rush into things so THIS time around, play by the rules so your feeling dont get hurt. If you feelings keep putting certain thoughts in your head its best to walk away from the situation because it will leave you heart broken again.

[Gemini]

sounds like she just wants to fuck around, riding every dude out there. then she might go back to you after shes run out of dudes.

Really? Thats what you get from that? I took it face value Atleast shes honest about what she wants...guys do the same thing and get props from most, its also fine if a chick wanna play the field before committing to one person. I dont think she's the type to go back to him after she "runs" outta dudes because she was the one to break it off when things no longer matched what she was looking for.

[8ball]

try your best to keep pounding it.

[Law Grandeur]

ive been with a few chicks like that. nowadays if it gets to that point i just let go and walk away. kick them out of my life. no use in stressing over something that really isnt there ya know? if she wants o search around to pick the right guy fine, but keeping you on a "leash" or a type of backup if all else fails just isnt right. i say move on dude

[crazymikey]

She's recently out of a 3 year relationship and she told me straight up that this year is about "finding herself & adventure and exploration." She has a 40 day trip to Thailand booked for later this year. (Insert CB7 parts wanted list here)

I'd like to keep her around. While I'm not necessarily looking to jump into a relationship either, when I am ready, I want something serious. She's the type of girl I can see that is the settle down type.

Basically, what happened at the time is we both rushed into something too fast. If we kinda rewind a little and get back to the way things were, our friendship/relationship will grow from there. Who know what road it'll lead down.

The best part is that she still has feelings for me, and when talking to her lastnight, she did not say there's no chance in hell, she said "I think FOR NOW we should stay friends. We crossed boundaries we shouldn't have so soon."

Who knows. I'm not out looking for other girls anyways. I like this one, so if I have to cool things down, that's fine with me.

Had some small talk texting today. I feel about 100x better just having her back in my life some way rather than no way.

[zmanwit90accord]

She's recently out of a 3 year relationship and she told me straight up that this year is about "finding herself & adventure and exploration." She has a 40 day trip to Thailand booked for later this year. (Insert CB7 parts wanted list here)

I'd like to keep her around. While I'm not necessarily looking to jump into a relationship either, when I am ready, I want something serious. She's the type of girl I can see that is the settle down type.

Basically, what happened at the time is we both rushed into something too fast. If we kinda rewind a little and get back to the way things were, our friendship/relationship will grow from there. Who know what road it'll lead down.

The best part is that she still has feelings for me, and when talking to her lastnight, she did not say there's no chance in hell, she said "I think FOR NOW we should stay friends. We crossed boundaries we shouldn't have so soon."

Who knows. I'm not out looking for other girls anyways. I like this one, so if I have to cool things down, that's fine with me.

Had some small talk texting today. I feel about 100x better just having her back in my life some way rather than no way.

You and I are quite literally in the same boat. Glad to hear everything's going well. I know I'd be devastated as well if this kind of girl just walked out. Sometimes when you find someone you know is a keeper, you just don't want to let her go, even if you never had her to hold in the first place.

[crazymikey]

Sometimes when you find someone you know is a keeper, you just don't want to let her go, even if you never had her to hold in the first place.

You could not have said it any better.

[zmanwit90accord]

You could not have said it any better.

haha thanks. I'm going to write that down before it gets lost in the interwebz.

[i want my cb9]

X to the next has been my philosophy through out my younger years until i found the one that stayed. Ive been married now 8 years in june and have two wonderfull kids and had 7 different cars.

[ChIoVnIdCa]

Disregard females.

[Law Grandeur]