I Need Guy Advice

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[QUOTE=pwrusr]This is a fair warning to keep this thread on topic and not disrespect the person who began this thread. remember she came to us for help, not to have her thread craped on.

sooo true

[allgo_allshow]

im pretty sure he was joking so you dont have to take it seriously

You're right, I dont have to take it so seriously. But that's neither here nor there... she posted to get advice, not to get leghumped.

[91ex]

i agree with you completely.his post was completely unneccesary

\/\/either that\/\/ or delete all pointless post in this thread

[pwrusr]

I'm about to clean this up a bit...

thread cleaned, NO MORE POINTLESS OR OFF TOPIC POSTS PLEASE!!!

[hondagurlex21]

I had no idea that this would turn out like this. My full intentions were to get a guys point of veiw on the matter not tryin to put all of my business out there. Chris and I love each other very much no matter what happens and that is what keeps us going that and we both love cars. The problem is sometimes he gets carried away and doesn't notice what goes on around him. He is a good father, and for the most part a good b/f. Things are very well for us we are fortunate to be where we are today. And I appreciate him being here when he is.

[4thGen4dr]

Hope you guys work things out, I just went thru a breakup with my gf of 4 years and theres this site enotalone.com that can really helped me and Im sure it can help you too you. Good luck

[arrozburner]

this sounds soooo familiar....i was in this type of situation as well with my chick and you know what, nothing she said ever got the point across of how i was putting her second to my car...it was a self realization that made me realize what i was doing and how i was hurting her. you are on the right track though...youre both sharing this hobby of tuning cars now youjust have to talk to him and make him realize what he is doing...no fighting and no arguing, just state what is bothering you and hear what he has to say about it...marriage wont solve any of this so fix these small problems first and then you could think about marriage. im 25, my chick is 20 and another problem that we were facing was the whole age thing...i liked doing things that require you to be 21 and over and unfortunately she wasnt that...we fixed that problem in not a legal way with some "mc arthur park documents" (its an l.a. thing) but it cost a pretty penny so we didnt go out for a couple of weeks and i didnt get anything for my car either...its just learning to balance things...sounds easy but its tricky. i wish you good luck and if you want another chicks point of view (we just went through this so its fresh on her mond) pm "ms rev" on here...she's my lil lady and she migth be able to help a lil more.

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that is why i stay away from serious relationships and somehow i know more about these relationships than the people that are in them.....

hondagurlex21 i hope everything works out. hopefullythis guy comes to his senses and gives u "something" that he is hiding... i bet u would love that.

good luck

let us know what happens.