My fiancé and I are getting married in September and we are sending out invitations this coming week. I've been reading around on how to ask for cash, if possible at all in a proper way. I came across a few things that I'm confused about, never having done this before.
First, I read around about general wedding gift etiquette, and it says that are you are not to mention where you are registered in the invitation. Now if I don't tell people where we are registered in the invitation, when am I supposed to tell them and how? And when are wedding gifts usually given? At the wedding reception or sometime later?
Normally I'm not so caught up in getting stuff, it's definitely not what the wedding is about, but after we get back from our honeymoon, her aunt wants to throw us a big reception with everyone we want to invite. It's her gift to us since our wedding will only consist of our closest 30ish family members. We're paying for everything ourselves, and we can't afford mich more than that.
During the large reception, we would like to "clean up" gift wise. Whether it be cash or some cool around the house shit for when we get our own place. But again, from what I read, it's improper to mention anything having to do with gifts or registries in the invite... So when do we do it? Is it ok to have a seperate piece of paper in the invitation envelope with our registry and RSVP info?
What did you guys all do?
First, I read around about general wedding gift etiquette, and it says that are you are not to mention where you are registered in the invitation. Now if I don't tell people where we are registered in the invitation, when am I supposed to tell them and how? And when are wedding gifts usually given? At the wedding reception or sometime later?
Normally I'm not so caught up in getting stuff, it's definitely not what the wedding is about, but after we get back from our honeymoon, her aunt wants to throw us a big reception with everyone we want to invite. It's her gift to us since our wedding will only consist of our closest 30ish family members. We're paying for everything ourselves, and we can't afford mich more than that.
During the large reception, we would like to "clean up" gift wise. Whether it be cash or some cool around the house shit for when we get our own place. But again, from what I read, it's improper to mention anything having to do with gifts or registries in the invite... So when do we do it? Is it ok to have a seperate piece of paper in the invitation envelope with our registry and RSVP info?
What did you guys all do?
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