Should I do this?

[JaiBeezy DnB]

Overview of my situation. My girlfriend is out with her best friend for years (since high school, he is a guy, very metro, gives off a *** vibe and usually attends *** clubs and such). They are out on sixth street partying, i wasnt invited, i was pissed, now im jsut taking it like a man and dealing with it. Anyways, we are both enrolled in summer classes, she is retaking a class and she had assignments do tonight. She tried taking the tests before she got there but she spent her time unwisely and got a bad grade. Now she is out with her friends and she sent me a txt asking if i would do it for her. I dont want to because now im feeling used, also she is out having fun when i just got of work and now have to do her stuff. I want her to learn a lesson but also i dont want to be cruel. I dont want to be walked over, and im shocked she would ask me to do this.

*Edit*Its a group of friends and they are staying the night there and such. I trust the situation because if she cheats ill just move on and she will be a horrible person, so dont bring that up. Just the topic at hand with doing her work while she is out partying. I care for her deeply, and she does too, i know its fucked up she didnt ask if i could go, but also its his birthday so its his shots but w/e he is a prick in my book now, but ill be a bigger man and still share words and such. Emotions are a mofo.

[wrichards2005]

Overview of my situation. My girlfriend is out with her best friend for years (since high school, he is a guy, very metro, gives off a *** vibe and usually attends *** clubs and such). They are out on sixth street partying, i wasnt invited, i was pissed, now im jsut taking it like a man and dealing with it. Anyways, we are both enrolled in summer classes, she is retaking a class and she had assignments do tonight. She tried taking the tests before she got there but she spent her time unwisely and got a bad grade. Now she is out with her friends and she sent me a txt asking if i would do it for her. I dont want to because now im feeling used, also she is out having fun when i just got of work and now have to do her stuff. I want her to learn a lesson but also i dont want to be cruel. I dont want to be walked over, and im shocked she would ask me to do this.

Its a group of friends and they are staying the night there and such. I trust the situation because if she cheats ill just move on and she will be a horrible person.

Don't do it. Just wait till you do it for her and help her make the grade only to find out she's cheating.

Either way, even if she's not cheating, its still wrong. No girl that loved or cared for you would put you in that position.

[ibr_adam09]

dont waste your time on someone else's faultiness

[JaiBeezy DnB]

Thanks guys I appreciate it.

[trickedaccord92]

dont want to get you jumping a gun but sounds like you are being used

[JaiBeezy DnB]

Yeah i was about to be. Its not that though. She does her shit i do mine, we help each other out sometimes by guiding. We go out, have fun, kiss, do some "at home activities", and what not. I met her parents and we go out. Its her friend though. He is controlling and its annoying. They argue about petty shit and what not. They call each other fat (the arent, and well its one of those bonds that you can tell that nothing is gonna happen and if it does well she has bad taste cause I am damn good, and he is wtf.) Its the whole third wheel thing and also she is a people pleaser and goes with the flow if its safe. I trust her and what not. We go out of the way for each other at times and also set aside time for us to do the couple thing. Also hang with each others friends and blah blah blah.

Anyways, its basically her friend. I dont think he can deal with us. I think its necessary to talk to him about things about this situation. It is effed up that she would ask me to do this knowing how i feel about tonight. I want her to have a good time tonight. Anyways this is bothering me and im waiting for this night to be over.

[stewie]

hahaha send her a text back saying your going out tonight so you cant.

[bcjammerx]

hahaha send her a text back saying your going out tonight so you cant.

Best idea...I recommend this 100%...but seriously...DO go out so if she comes over you won't be there.




But dude...are you kidding me?

so...
she would rather hang with other people than you, and she doesn't want you tagging along

now she wants you to do her homework...that she doesn't want to do...and you do.

you know in the movie...where the girl gets a nerdy guy to do all her work and all he gets is a hand on the boob or butt? But nothing else...

yeah that sounds like you.

You either need to dump her...or sit down and have a SERIOUS talk with her about this non-sense...seems she isn't in this relationship for you but for herself.

[jimy]

picture of the girl first.

[cvc7chris]

let her do it

[PointBlank]

picture of the girl first.

Lol x2

But seriously, if she would rather go out, and not invite you, then do her own work, let her fail.

[cvc7chris]

how can you not invite your other half to the club to go out with a *** guy and friends. that's bs. if my girl did that to me, she'd be hitting the curb

[lokuputha]

If you want to do her homework do it, if you don't want to, don't. Either case, have no regrets....tell her to start doing her own homework, mainly because it's in her best interest.

[King James]

People would seriously care if their gf went out with friends for anight and didnt invite them?.....I wouldnt give two shits....nor I have I ever in the past.....everyone is entitled to their own time....the way I look at it is if I have to go out with her everytime she wants to hang with friends....then shell want to be around my friends and I all the time....and to that I say.....fuck that

Im looking at this from my position.....and I would probably do the homework for my girlfriend....but Ive been with her a while and I love her alot so I wouldnt care at all

[JaiBeezy DnB]

I dont mind her going out. I was bummed i wasnt invited. It has happened before. I went out with her before and such. Usually to a *** club anyways. I enjoy her being out with her friends. I only thing i dont like is the whole wondering what if and uncertainty. I was invited nor not invited i was in limbo. I despise that. I know she is having a good time now. She isnt using me, and i dont just get a handjobs... lol.

Well, im not tripping about the going out without me cause i would get tired of going with her all the time to clubs just to listen to loud ass music and mingle with people i dont give 2 shits about. It was the homework thing. I expect her to do her work. We talked about it, I asked her to do her work she said she was and she is going to do it, so i was dissapointed in her for asking me to do that for her last minute. I feel like i should of but also not like that.