possible to fix my fck up

[Leung]

rule of thumb: never sleep with someone's best friend.

2x Also don't sleep with your best friend's hot sister.

[Flatline]

2x Also don't sleep with your best friend's hot sister.

i think you mean bestfriends hot girlfriend.....


That is the only real big fuck up.

Your girlfriend can be mad, but ill pass. no reason for it not to. All that blocking is just a defensive wall to shut out the fact that your not together anymore.

If your not around she can pretend. But sleeping with her friend who happens to be you best friends girl?

It would have been better to sleep with her sister or mom or aunt or something. but now who is taking you out for drinks because of all this?

[r1emperor]

You better hope that she doesn't sleep with your best friend to get back at you. The best thing to do is give it time to die down and then talk to her and BE REAL about your feelings.

[Gemini]

Even if she claims she got over it a couple weeks,months, etc and I can tell everytime that other girl is around she will automatically get pissed at you. And also whenever you guys get into any type of argument she will bring it up....so in reality even if you guys pretend like everything is good it technically wont be.

[ATS666]

Even if she claims she got over it a couple weeks,months, etc and I can tell everytime that other girl is around she will automatically get pissed at you. And also whenever you guys get into any type of argument she will bring it up....so in reality even if you guys pretend like everything is good it technically wont be.

This guy knows what he is tallking about.

I am in the midst of trying to save an 8year relationship with my highschool sweetheart. I am more in love with her now then ever. she wants time to find out who she is and if she can stay faithfull to me but still wants to do the fun stuff we normally do. She says she loves me but isn't sure if she is still in love with me...


Give her some time to cool off, that means stop trying to call her or text her or do anything... This is your time to figure out what is best for you and what you need to do for yourself.
In a week or 2 show up in person at her place (dont do it at her work or anything).
Bring flowers especially if its not something you often. Tell her you just want to talk and atleast stay friends for the time being.

Shit man relationship really suck.
I have a good group of friends that are there at anytime for anything and I hope you do to cuz it makes it alot easier.
dont talk to the other chick for now, you may end up losing her friendship forever like I did cuz I was in the same situation once.
fuck im rambling on, life sucks when its like this.

[4U2H8ME]

DUDE, have you watched "friends" when Ross and Rachel were on a break, he slept with another chick, she found out, and he was F****D!!!!
Well if you haven't, every girl in the USA has, and your pretty much F****d!!!! Just give it some time and she may come around, just take your lumps like a man for now.

[Gemini]

DUDE, have you watched "friends" when Ross and Rachel were on a break, he slept with another chick, she found out, and he was F****D!!!!
Well if you haven't, every girl in the USA has, and your pretty much F****d!!!! Just give it some time and she may come around, just take your lumps like a man for now.

Its funny you referenced Friends because my co-workere whi sits beside is the biggest Friends nut(she got all the seasons on DVD) and I told her about your post and she remembered it, she said even in season 10 she kept bringing that up when he "cheated" on their break

[GHOST 2.2]

NO.

there is no such thing as a "break" a "vacation" "time off"

girls are stubborn so tell you they dont care but they do. but sleeping with her friend is probably the ultimate stab to your ex now she probably hates you. you cant fix that.

i know i sound like a dick, but your assed out.

[mayberry]

you're fucked

move on, everything is fubar now brotha.

yeah dude, you fucked up. you played the game and got caught. think of it as like playing the original nintendo back in the day, you get to the 10th level and bam, you get caught. time to start all over again.

[wvcb7]

listen man, she looks young and needs to understand one thing, when she asked for, or even agreed on a break, that means one of two things on her part, 1. at the time she wasnt feeling it, or 2. she was talking to another dude. so with either case, why would she be mad if you slept with someone else? at the time there was no attachment/involvement between you two. listen man im going to give you advise i wsh someone would have gave me. leave her alone.......give it a month or two, let her realize she was irrational and how much she misses you, and during that time you can think of how not to fuck one of her friends again.

[icedplaya123]

Man Brian you already know how i feel about this issue...i've known you long enough to know that your just like me always willing to go out of your way for someone you care about, yet not recieve the same in return.

I was pretty much in the same situation with my ex and it ended with her wanting a break, but she shut me out then had tha audicity to try to befriend me once again via phone, txt and myspace, after finding out that she had been cheating on me for a while...

I know in this case there is no solid evidence that she has, however you and i both know that she wanted you around when it was convenient and whenever you wanted to plan something, such as taking her out to dinner...her friends seemed to have come first .

I am in the midst of trying to save an 8year relationship with my highschool sweetheart. I am more in love with her now then ever. she wants time to find out who she is and if she can stay faithfull to me but still wants to do the fun stuff we normally do. She says she loves me but isn't sure if she is still in love with me...

Thats pretty much what my ex told me...we had a break once before which lasted a month in which she wouldn't give me the time of day. Yet i would respond asap as soon as she called... why cause i loved her and wanted things to work. We did get back together and things seemed ok, but i didn't trust her.

Another break came 2 years later and that was the end of the chain in terms of the relationship, this time i wasn't trying to get back with her as much but i wanted answers. She give me that i need time to think speech and how i was holding her back. I guess i was holding her back from hopping on some other guys dick lol.

But man i tell you its hard to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't put in the same effort as you have, i honestly think its better to stop hanging out with her so she can feel whats it's like to not have you around. What she is doing now is having her cake and eating it to.

You just have to be strong buddy

[Bcozzi71]

well after trying to talk one last talk to her . i was told to go find erika (her friend) and go off and get hit by a car (very mature). anyway its funny im not even real to upset like when she dumped me and all. Like i feel like this is closure to a long shitty relationship. Im feeling good and time to find some news girls. hopefully there some out there. My bestfriend who i thought would be th most mad is cool and very chill realizing its not that big a deal. So i guess time to move on!

[Flatline]

well after trying to talk one last talk to her . i was told to go find erika (her friend) and go off and get hit by a car (very mature). anyway its funny im not even real to upset like when she dumped me and all. Like i feel like this is closure to a long shitty relationship. Im feeling good and time to find some news girls. hopefully there some out there. My bestfriend who i thought would be th most mad is cool and very chill realizing its not that big a deal. So i guess time to move on!

Well if he is cool that you had his girl then thats what you call a BFF...

and on top of what was said previously, some girls get mad even if they THINK someone else is interesed in you (or vice versa) so think on that.
If a girl willl get mad about "nothing", then she'll definitely get mad about "somthing"

[gloryaccordy]

I know u love her... but eff her... she sounds crazy boss, she's not operating within the realms of logic

[mappyCB7]

you sir are fucked.

let it go. It's more respectable.