Move in with the gf or not??!??!?

[topcop182]

Dont do it man! Have your own place as long as you can. Once you move in with a chick, she owns you!

[LinX]

I live with my girl and thank God everything has worked out for me. If you cannot reach compromises and always want things your way then don't expect it to work out. I'm pretty serious about me and my girl as well, I don't plan on dating other people. Think about whats best for you, and what's best for both of you.

[gloryaccordy]

Dont do it man! Have your own place as long as you can. Once you move in with a chick, she owns you!

Why, I'm not some pushover. My girl knows the deal

I don't get how dudes let their girls push them around. U probably make more money than them, u are stronger & bigger than them, etc. Plus just as a person u have to establish some kind of base level of respect and let people know what u will and won't take. If I moved in with my girl I really don't think anything about our dynamic would change much, and if it did, fuck it, we break the lease and move on.

[topcop182]

Why, I'm not some pushover. My girl knows the deal

I don't get how dudes let their girls push them around. U probably make more money than them, u are stronger & bigger than them, etc. Plus just as a person u have to establish some kind of base level of respect and let people know what u will and won't take. If I moved in with my girl I really don't think anything about our dynamic would change much, and if it did, fuck it, we break the lease and move on.

Well I only speakfrom personal expierience, If you have that kind of status with your girl then, everything we say here can only be advise. and I wish you luck. Its you who has the make the final say homie, but just remember the vagina has strong and mythical powers, that even the best of us can have a hard time dealing with

[starchland]

wait. nothing bad will happen if you dont move in asap.

[WilliamW]

Here online it's either one or the other. People will always say "do what you think is right" or "it's ultimately up to you" this and that. I think you've already made you decision. Your just trying to get some responses that confirm your decision to quench that 30% of uncertainty.

People give you advice based on their own relationships. How hard it was for them doing the exact same thing, how they thought it was great at first but later ripped them apart. Others still living with the one they moved in with. Who's to say that they don't split up tomorrow and their opinion totally changes?

Unless you both have some clones out there who are exactly like you and did move in together, nobodies opinion can really point you in the "right" direction. Every person is different, personality, taste, though process,..... SANITY!!! One person may look at your dirty dishes stuck to the bottom of the couch with molding spaghetti and laugh their ass off. That other person may come to you with a meat cleaver in the middle of the night and sell your kidney on the black market and skip town...

Seriously now, everyone different so do what you want and go with it.

[Shinobi]

Here online it's either one or the other. People will always say "do what you think is right" or "it's ultimately up to you" this and that. I think you've already made you decision. Your just trying to get some responses that confirm your decision to quench that 30% of uncertainty.

People give you advice based on their own relationships. How hard it was for them doing the exact same thing, how they thought it was great at first but later ripped them apart. Others still living with the one they moved in with. Who's to say that they don't split up tomorrow and their opinion totally changes?

Unless you both have some clones out there who are exactly like you and did move in together, nobodies opinion can really point you in the "right" direction. Every person is different, personality, taste, though process,..... SANITY!!! One person may look at your dirty dishes stuck to the bottom of the couch with molding spaghetti and laugh their ass off. That other person may come to you with a meat cleaver in the middle of the night and sell your kidney on the black market and skip town...

Seriously now, everyone different so do what you want and go with it.

I agree with WilliamW 110%.

You'l have arguements, thats for sure. Arguements are what make relationships stronger , in my opinion, its how you handle it which make things better.

[nine_deuce]

I moved in with my girlfriend, we were only together a short time, I'd spend the night, then go home when she went to work. Then, I just never went home. We've been together a little over 13 months, never had an argument. We work different shifts, so, I think that's the time apart from one another we need. She never complains about me being on here, working on my car, hanging out with the guys... nothing! In fact, she tells me I need to have a guys night, to go hang out. Everything is picture perfect.

She's the perfect girl

[baracuda]

you have to love the worst of a person before you can love them forever or plan on loving them forever. i have been with my gf for 2 years and live with her now and have been for yr and half i love it come home and wake up to the girl i love more then anything, it was hard at 1st when we moved in just because we awere always in each others space but after time we just learned how to communicate better and that solved 98% of our problems which when you look back at them were just childish yelling matches over some of the most retarded things ever. i have no plans of breaking up with my girl i feel like i was lucky enough to find the one for me early on. relationships take work and 100% devotion (that other person has to come 1st they will do the same if they want it to last)which most people(not everyone) that are part of that rising 50%+ divorse rate just dont work toward keepin gthe relationship healthy they get lazy like most americans and just give up.(what is easier to do? just stop everything and leave so you dont have to do anything or put the time in to make things work so they last)
so if you do it might be hard at 1st but talk about everything dont hold any thoughts or feelings back when she wants to talk the more you open up to her the more she will trust you, and that makes a world of diffrence. and WORK on the relationship to make it last because once you give up it will just fall apart.
my 2 cents (btw sorry im all over the place its one of those days)

[baracuda]

I moved in with my girlfriend, we were only together a short time, I'd spend the night, then go home when she went to work. Then, I just never went home. We've been together a little over 13 months, never had an argument. We work different shifts, so, I think that's the time apart from one another we need. She never complains about me being on here, working on my car, hanging out with the guys... nothing! In fact, she tells me I need to have a guys night, to go hang out. Everything is picture perfect.

She's the perfect girl

sounds alot like my girl just she goes to school and i work i see her every morning and night we smoke bud together she loves my friends and they love her too and we all smoke bud together every week and weekend, goes to car meets with me jams to heavy metal with me play video games(just gta)with me,and go on camping trips with everyone she care about getting dirty she is a girl when she needs to be and can hang with boys when any day.

[mj213]

Run away.

Why did you go to the emergency room? Did she hit you with a 32 oz steel reserve for not giving her the remote to watch Jerry Springer? If not, then maybe you don't have to run away.

[GHOST 2.2]

I live with my girl and thank God everything has worked out for me. If you cannot reach compromises and always want things your way then don't expect it to work out. I'm pretty serious about me and my girl as well, I don't plan on dating other people. Think about whats best for you, and what's best for both of you.

was it the same girl that you brought over to my house that one day?

[Law Grandeur]

never move in with your g/f unless you know its going somewhere and she's trustworthy

[93EXaesthetic]

bro my story goes on n on.. i ended up in jail for a night and almost lost my job with her... after i saw her with another dude... yo i got a crazy story bro..ill pm you cuz i dont want everyone knowing my bizz fo shizz

[gloryaccordy]

never move in with your g/f unless you know its going somewhere and she's trustworthy

I wouldn't be with her if it wasn't and she wasn't

bro my story goes on n on.. i ended up in jail for a night and almost lost my job with her... after i saw her with another dude... yo i got a crazy story bro..ill pm you cuz i dont want everyone knowing my bizz fo shizz

Hit me on the PM tip... you can never be sure, but my girl doesn't seem like the type. She's not secretive or shady, just a regular chick morally.