How do you...

[sackingz123]

That never works... and half the guys in the world do it anyway. I'm one of them. Well, I don't always try to figure things out, but I'll try every angle to make it work.

add me in. LULZ. thinking back, i shouldnt never done that.

[wlfpck]

let me guess. after you broke up, you kept calling her asking why did this happen what did you do wrong etc.... did you do all of this?

Nope. I did not call her. We broke up on August 17th. She has called me 2 times. I have called her once. That was because she left me a voicemail.

When we broke up, I asked her in person. She told me she didn't have romantic feelings anymore. She sees me as a friend instead of a boyfriend. idk... if i'm a friend.... she sure isn't hanging out with me very much. lmfao. Probably for the better.

Her own sorority sisters were ragging on her for breaking up with me. I quote "She'll come back to you. She totally dated up. I don't get why you dated her at all. You could have done so much better."

I personally don't agree with that. I just wish she was more mature about relationships. I might be a 5 year old for everything else. But when it comes to relationships, I'm mature about it.


This past year and half has been real shitty for me. If you guys remember that thread I made about being in real deep shit... well yeah... it just seems like God is up there. Pointing at me. Going "F YOU"

Idk. I'm hoping my luck changes.

[Tnwagn]

Relationships are just another way to get fucked


Of course, this is a pretty negative way to look at it but it's kind of a viewpoint I subscribe to. That's not to say that cutting off contact from everyone you know. Up front is good to know exactly what each person wants from a relationship.

At your point, however, there isn't anything that you two can do to "mend" or "figure out" what went wrong. Most likely, she didn't realize how deep you two were until it was beyond her comfort level.

So for you, the best option may be to move on. There is no sense in wasting your time and tearing your nerves trying to understand it.

Start looking into other things, or expanding on things you already do. If you and your friends like to hang out/watch movies/ect. do that a little more. It sounds pretty fucking lame, but cruise CB7tuner.com . No one here is going to do anything negative with your emotions. And you can turn it off whenever you want if things start going south (unlike all relationships). I'm not saying stop talking to people, just start controlling little things and get your confidence back up.

If the sorority sisters were saying that she was "dating up" then go out and get a girl on whatever level yours is. Confidently approach other girls and just go after whatever you want.

As to your "luck", personally I would put that kind of thinking behind yourself. The luckiest people in the world are the ones who have busted their asses to get what they deserve. There is a small amount of bad luck that goes around, but if you stick to a solid game plan that is reasonable then there is no reason for you not to be able to accomplish some great things.

[J-specCb4]

do what deev said.... throw urself into something that makes u happy.... and make sure to not let opportunities goes by to have fun.... my ex of three years and i broke up and i had the best summer of my life and now i found someone who is soooo much better for me.... i would have married my ex too....

[wlfpck]

dang... 3 years...wow.

yeah i've been keeping myself busy with my frat stuff. Events, parties, being Sober Brother and driving all their drunk asses home. ha ha

[deevergote]

dang... 3 years...wow.

Try 9. And I won't even go into how it happened... No matter how hard it seems, it won't kill you.

[203Cree]

Get under a new one. Or several new ones. That usually does the trick for me.

That and cut all contact with the old. Get rid of her stuff, pictures and the like, bascially any ready reminders of her you have......

[MadSpleen85]

Cut all contact with the old. Get rid of her stuff, pictures and the like, bascially any ready reminders of her you have......

x2 that worked for me after my last ex. I had the help of my current gf, who was more then willing to help me rid myself of the ex's stuff.

[wlfpck]

yeah...

I'm just looking for the right girl for me. Until i find that right girl... he he he...

lmao.

but yeah. I've gotten rid of most of the stuff. oh well.

[203Cree]

yeah...

I'm just looking for the right girl for me. Until i find that right girl... he he he...

lmao.

but yeah. I've gotten rid of most of the stuff. oh well.

Quit looking for Ms. Right and start looking for Ms. Rightnow........

[Dr.x]

do her best friend..

[wlfpck]

do Her Best Friend..

God No!

[fatboy1185]

from my experience, you won't really get over her until you meet someone else. once you find someone else and have huge feelings for her, you will forget about the past, and even begin to think that it was a waste for getting so upset over something that wasnt your fault

[stewie]

luckily for me, when i broke up with my gf...my best friend also got dumped...

me and him basically just hung out EVERY day...from after work till i went home to go to bed...all we would do was play ps3 and drink a few beers each night...after about 2 weeks, we'd gotten so used to doin that, that we forgot about our bitches and ended up starting goin out to strip clubs and night clubs again....

feels good to be free again though...

[wlfpck]

yeah... i'm pretty much just partying every weekend. so yeah... it's pretty good.