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We have dated before about 3 years ago for about 6-8 months, found out she was cheating on me i guess with her ex, after she moved back home. then i started dating someone else blah blah blah, didnt work out, she was in the background saying she made a mistake this and that, i still cared for her and took her back. we have been dating "officially" now for a year and three months. i think she is the one for me i see her as a part of my future. we currently live together with my brother and his g/f, and have lived together for about a year now.
the past month or so have been kinda rocky, i am having some money issues, which are currently resolved, i work a 40hr week, and go to school full time also. i have been stressed out, i feel i am pressed for time to really finish school and start a good career, not that my current employer is bad or anything, but a piece of paper = money in the field of work im in. she says i have changed, that i treat her differently, that i treat her like shit, and she misses the nice guy she met and wants him back. so i tell her i am sorry, i noticed it myself, and tell her i can/will change, and that i was just under a lot of stress recently. she doesnt really think i will, and wants to get her own apt, and "take a break." from experience (friends) a break doesnt do anything but hurt the situation, she states that we arent breaking up, that its just a way to be apart for us to realize that we really do love eachother. i think she is full of shit, and this is the first step to breaking up.
i am just curious, do breaks really do work? she says if it works out its an easy way to just move in and break ties wit my brother to "live on my own."
sorry if its a long read, and im sure you are all like "great another relationship thread."
We have dated before about 3 years ago for about 6-8 months, found out she was cheating on me i guess with her ex, after she moved back home. then i started dating someone else blah blah blah, didnt work out, she was in the background saying she made a mistake this and that, i still cared for her and took her back. we have been dating "officially" now for a year and three months. i think she is the one for me i see her as a part of my future. we currently live together with my brother and his g/f, and have lived together for about a year now.
the past month or so have been kinda rocky, i am having some money issues, which are currently resolved, i work a 40hr week, and go to school full time also. i have been stressed out, i feel i am pressed for time to really finish school and start a good career, not that my current employer is bad or anything, but a piece of paper = money in the field of work im in. she says i have changed, that i treat her differently, that i treat her like shit, and she misses the nice guy she met and wants him back. so i tell her i am sorry, i noticed it myself, and tell her i can/will change, and that i was just under a lot of stress recently. she doesnt really think i will, and wants to get her own apt, and "take a break." from experience (friends) a break doesnt do anything but hurt the situation, she states that we arent breaking up, that its just a way to be apart for us to realize that we really do love eachother. i think she is full of shit, and this is the first step to breaking up.
i am just curious, do breaks really do work? she says if it works out its an easy way to just move in and break ties wit my brother to "live on my own."
sorry if its a long read, and im sure you are all like "great another relationship thread."
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