I know this is a pretty long message but I will greatly appreciate it if you took the time to read it and suggest any possible solutions.
We have had sooo many problem with my sister for the past years and now it has gone way too far. She is a little mentally challenged but you can't tell unless you know her. I don't even know if I can call it mentally challenged because I see a lot of other white teenage girls being just as stupid and acting the same way, I just don't personally know them which makes me believe that my sister is the worst. Over a year ago, she turned 18. At 18, being considered as an adult you are given a lot more possibilities and privileges than as a teenager and we all know that but how to deal with it when it's your sister who has mental problems and has no idea how she can handle the new privileges and possibilities?
She was giving a credit card, a loan, a phone, wait several phones, buying all kind of things every week that are useless and cost a lot... That's what we found out when my mom found endless bills and letters that she was hiding from us. She has got a loan of 2 grand that she gave a fucking black asshole (don't hear me wrong I'm just angry at this one particular person and friends not black people in general) is what we learned from the police who has come seen us because although she's 18 thought that we should know about it because they have realized she's got issues and went complaining to them about how this one guy didn't give her 2 grand back. She also use all the limit that was on her credit card or even cards I don't even know to buy everything she could and wanted to end up with thousands of dollars of dept that she cannot pay. My poor parents, desperately trying to help her our started slowly paying of her depts while they can't even pay theirs. We all tried talking to her but it just doesn't get in her fucking head. Finally when we thought it was over, we get a phone bill of 1600$. She's got in love with this other black guy living in Haiti and talked to him on the phone non stop for a month without us knowing. My mom was crying in desperation. They love her so much which I can only understand as for how she's a member of the family and she's their kid but I personally hate her. It is really ugly to say for a brother and but I truly do after all this. I would never let anyone hurt her physically if I could do anything about it because she's family but other than that I can't stand her.
Just about 3 days ago the bank called her to tell her they're gonna sue her because of her dept she can't pay. As stupid as she already is, she had to insult them and hang up on their face. although that was unbearably stupid, financial institutes are fucking skunks as well. I mean credit cards are so easy of access. They do it on purpose to trick thousands of people with similar problems. It's one of the shittiest business ever. The worst is that to get the ones she had she had to go to the bank and ask for one... Weren't they intelligent enough to realized she's got issues? You can't talk to her as you do to a normal person. I think if she's sued I should use that fact against them. The worst is that she doesn't feel our pain, no remorse, no mercy, nothing at all and as stupid as she already is she keeps saying she'll give it back. How in the fucking world? We won't even be able to pay the phone bill. We will most likely be in trouble and sued to for how we cannot afford to pay the phone bill. My poor dad is 53 years old and works 75 hours a week and sometimes more to pay his dept and my stupid sisters'. I don't get to spend any time with them. They're never home, we never talk and they only live to give me and my sister everything they can even though I wouldn't ask them a penny today as an adult. She's completely fucking up our lives physically and emotionally. I just adore my parents and I really do and sometimes I can't sleep thinking about how I never get to do anything and how they have no life. I mean what is their fun in life? These people has got their life taken away. All they do is work. What will my dad, this man tell himself once he retires in years and years if it ever will happen before he gets really sick? It's just so painful to know that they have no fun. They are literally slaves in this world. I'm barely 21 and know I wouldn't ever be able to work the way my dad does so how can he who is so much older? He should be the one exhausted and have less energy than I do. I just find it so unfair. They're the kind of people who are ready to help anyone in the need even if it involves putting them under more physical, financial and emotional pressure. I serious think they deserve some kind of help to. It is good to help people but why can't you be helped out too when you're in trouble? It's simply bullshit that's what I think. Although all this seems long, it is only unfortunately to short version.
I wonder what's next.
Thanks for the suggestion(s) and help anyone provides.
We have had sooo many problem with my sister for the past years and now it has gone way too far. She is a little mentally challenged but you can't tell unless you know her. I don't even know if I can call it mentally challenged because I see a lot of other white teenage girls being just as stupid and acting the same way, I just don't personally know them which makes me believe that my sister is the worst. Over a year ago, she turned 18. At 18, being considered as an adult you are given a lot more possibilities and privileges than as a teenager and we all know that but how to deal with it when it's your sister who has mental problems and has no idea how she can handle the new privileges and possibilities?
She was giving a credit card, a loan, a phone, wait several phones, buying all kind of things every week that are useless and cost a lot... That's what we found out when my mom found endless bills and letters that she was hiding from us. She has got a loan of 2 grand that she gave a fucking black asshole (don't hear me wrong I'm just angry at this one particular person and friends not black people in general) is what we learned from the police who has come seen us because although she's 18 thought that we should know about it because they have realized she's got issues and went complaining to them about how this one guy didn't give her 2 grand back. She also use all the limit that was on her credit card or even cards I don't even know to buy everything she could and wanted to end up with thousands of dollars of dept that she cannot pay. My poor parents, desperately trying to help her our started slowly paying of her depts while they can't even pay theirs. We all tried talking to her but it just doesn't get in her fucking head. Finally when we thought it was over, we get a phone bill of 1600$. She's got in love with this other black guy living in Haiti and talked to him on the phone non stop for a month without us knowing. My mom was crying in desperation. They love her so much which I can only understand as for how she's a member of the family and she's their kid but I personally hate her. It is really ugly to say for a brother and but I truly do after all this. I would never let anyone hurt her physically if I could do anything about it because she's family but other than that I can't stand her.
Just about 3 days ago the bank called her to tell her they're gonna sue her because of her dept she can't pay. As stupid as she already is, she had to insult them and hang up on their face. although that was unbearably stupid, financial institutes are fucking skunks as well. I mean credit cards are so easy of access. They do it on purpose to trick thousands of people with similar problems. It's one of the shittiest business ever. The worst is that to get the ones she had she had to go to the bank and ask for one... Weren't they intelligent enough to realized she's got issues? You can't talk to her as you do to a normal person. I think if she's sued I should use that fact against them. The worst is that she doesn't feel our pain, no remorse, no mercy, nothing at all and as stupid as she already is she keeps saying she'll give it back. How in the fucking world? We won't even be able to pay the phone bill. We will most likely be in trouble and sued to for how we cannot afford to pay the phone bill. My poor dad is 53 years old and works 75 hours a week and sometimes more to pay his dept and my stupid sisters'. I don't get to spend any time with them. They're never home, we never talk and they only live to give me and my sister everything they can even though I wouldn't ask them a penny today as an adult. She's completely fucking up our lives physically and emotionally. I just adore my parents and I really do and sometimes I can't sleep thinking about how I never get to do anything and how they have no life. I mean what is their fun in life? These people has got their life taken away. All they do is work. What will my dad, this man tell himself once he retires in years and years if it ever will happen before he gets really sick? It's just so painful to know that they have no fun. They are literally slaves in this world. I'm barely 21 and know I wouldn't ever be able to work the way my dad does so how can he who is so much older? He should be the one exhausted and have less energy than I do. I just find it so unfair. They're the kind of people who are ready to help anyone in the need even if it involves putting them under more physical, financial and emotional pressure. I serious think they deserve some kind of help to. It is good to help people but why can't you be helped out too when you're in trouble? It's simply bullshit that's what I think. Although all this seems long, it is only unfortunately to short version.
I wonder what's next.
Thanks for the suggestion(s) and help anyone provides.
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