My girlfriend's parents are freaking out

[2.2AZUL]

saying what?






no i didn't leave anything out..and i know everything that goes on, because we're together literally every day...it might be what you said at the beginning of your post...i don't know...



i mean. he's gone through some serious things lately...but even though the things hes gone through are very serious...that still doesn't give him the okay to go take it out on her...i mean of all people, her? it doesn't make any sense.

o.k good....so be cool homie don't go up to him..o.k cause he took it out on her not you...it may be that he's upset about you but he didn't say it so just wait and give him time..

.don't go up to him you'll just make it worst on her...he'll calm down and come around he's on a power trip right now he's prolly stressing like hell in money wise...thats all.....just relax he won't kick her out and if he does she has you for sure

[mj213]

If you know what the reason why he's saying this, SHE needs to talk to him about it, calmly. The last thing she needs to do is complicate things by yelling/etc.. If he's having problems, tell her to ask him if he wants to talk about it, or if she can do anything to help. If the guy's decent, that'll knock him on his heels.

Maybe he just doesn't feel like anyone else cares about what he's going through. We're all fucked up and dysfunctional. I know I've taken my frustrations out and dumped on other people before.

If you need to get involved by talking to him about it, chances are (no offense) you're too young for him to listen. After all, he didn't listen to his own daughter. I'm not saying NOT to, but keep in mind you may come out worse for wear (IE wanting to strangle him).

Just keep in mind, he's raised her this far, it's doubtful he's going to dump her off now.

[MikeW]

Does he know she's dating you??

Maybe it is you...?

Or something went down and she's not telling you about it. I mean, why else would her dad just up and tell his perfect daughter that she's trash and when school's done, she's on the streets???

Seems a little sketchy to me...

Nice pic. Btw, you ever do any Geico commercials...?

[Turbo Dave]

he doesn't want her to be un-perfect.

i would do a burnout in his driveway or something, and run off with his daughter for a week or so.

that'll teach him.

[accordaffair]

Sometimes parents have an un-reachably high expectation of their kids. Especially if you are a good student . To the point where they can say really awful things when you slip up, even slightly. What they don't understand often times though is that that can lead to the child never feeling like they're good enough, because the parent will not give approval, they feel like they are pushing the child to do better, but often times they push too hard. I think that's what happened with this outburst, but if she can't turn to her parents for support and sympathy, she can only turn to you.

I think they will come around, and I don't think it's right to do anything like go to her dad to ask what happened, but just be there for her, you're doing the right thing, and the way you describe it, so is she. Just let the situation calm down for a day.

[Leung]

i tried getting kicked out of my mother's house but yet here i am still. ugh.

[npor]

yeah..she never raised her voice or anything... this girl thinks on her feet 24/7, it amazes me.

she ended up takling to her mom lastnight while she was doing the whole makeup thing...and her mom told her that she'd never let anything happen to her, just that her dad is going through some really tough stuff right now (not going into detail, didn't ask), and life is just really hard for him right now.

but apparently, all morning her mom has been trying to make it up to her...

she still hasn't talked to her father yet today. i'm still banking on him coming to her and apologizing for over reacting..

[floored]

shes cute . itll be fine though ... sucks but time will fix it. hopefully not too much time